Inde, kholo lirilonse limaganizira za chitetezo cha mwana wake. Choncho, vuto la pedophilia likuwopsabe kwambiri m'masiku ano. Aliyense akhoza kukhala wodzichepetsa, ngakhale mmodzi yemwe palibe yemwe angaganize, chifukwa iye ndi wolemekezeka, wokoma, ndi zina zotero. Kotero, kuti mutha kuteteza mwana wanu, muyenera kuphunzira funso la momwe mungadziwire munthu wodalirika. Inde, palibe amene angatsimikize kuti mwina zana limodzi la magawo zana, chifukwa maganizo aumunthu amakhalabe chinthu chosadziwika, chodzaza ndi zodabwitsa. Koma komabe zidzakhala zopanda nzeru kudziwa zizindikiro zina za pedophilia.
Pedophilia: momwe mungadziwire munthu wodalirika?
Choyamba, ndizofunikira kumvetsetsa kuti pedophilia ilibe malire mu ntchito, mtundu, chikhalidwe kapena zikhalidwe zina zomveka bwino za umunthu. Wodzichepetsa kwambiri akhoza kukhala wina aliyense: mphunzitsi kapena mnansi wabwino yemwe nthawi zonse azigwira chitseko. Kotero inu simungakhoze kumasula aliyense kuchokera ku kukayikira.
Kulankhula za momwe mungadziwire munthu wodalirika, muyenera kuganizira kuti iwo amawadziŵa bwino omwe akuzunzidwa. Malingana ndi chiwerengero, makumi asanu ndi limodzi pa milandu ya milandu amakwatira mwanayo, ndipo makumi atatu - onse ndi membala wa banja lake. Mwachidziwikire, ponena za funso la momwe angadziwire munthu wodziteteza-bambo, zingakhale zovuta, ngakhale kwa amayi. Koma ngati mumvetsera ubale pakati pa bambo ndi ana, ndiye kuti zonse zidzamveka bwino. Bamboyo ndi wokongola kwambiri kapena wamwano, ndipo nthawi zambiri ana amasonyeza kuti ndi antchito ndipo, ndithudi, amawopa.
Ndipo, ndithudi, pedophiles ndithudi amachiza ana. Amayesetsa kumanga nawo ubale wolimba wochokera kukhulupiliro kwathunthu ndi chidwi wina ndi mzake. Kawirikawiri pedophiles amayankhula ndi ana, monga ndi akulu - mozama. Amayesetsanso kuti azigwirizana. Chinthu chachikulu apa sichiyenera kulakwitsa ndikusavomerezeka chifukwa cha zizindikiro za pedophilia chomwe chidzangokhala chikondi kwa ana komanso chiwonetsero cha chisamaliro.