Kodi kunyada ndi chiyani?

Ambiri amatha kufotokozera kuti kunyada ndi kotani, koma siyense amene angavomereze kuti amakhudzidwa ndi machimo asanu ndi atatu awa. Munthu amene amadziona kuti ndi wofunika komanso wodalirika payekha amadziona kuti ndi wabwino, makamaka, omwe amatanthauza kuti iwo amene amawona zofooka zake ndi zolakwika, chifukwa alibe.

Chiwonetsero cha kunyada

Kodi khalidwe la umunthu umenewu likuwonetseredwa bwanji? Mwamuna amatsutsa wina aliyense, osati iye mwini. Nthawi zonse amatsutsa wina, amamukhumudwitsa. Kuntchito iwo samayamikira, iwo samalemekeza nyumba, ndipo pambuyo pake zonse ziri zabwino kwambiri ndipo mwabwino kwambiri. Chinthu choopsa kwambiri n'chakuti kusadziyesa bwino payekha kumabweretsa zotsatira zovulaza, zomwe sizingasinthidwe. Nchifukwa chiyani tchimo la kunyada mu Orthodoxy ndilo loyipa kwambiri? Chifukwa amakula ngati chotupa cha khansa, kudzidzibisa yekha pansi pa zizindikiro zina ndi zizindikiro zina ndizosautsa moyo wa munthu, osapatsa imfa, monga momwe zilili ndi khansara, koma kuwonongeka kwa munthu , kukhala yekhayekha ndi kutsutsa Mulungu.

Pambuyo pa zonse, kuti tikhulupirire mwa Iye, kumvetsetsa kuti zonse zomwe zimachitika m'moyo zimagwiridwa ndi chifuniro cha Mulungu, osati mwa kufuna kwake, ndikofunika kuzindikira kukhalapo kwa kudzikuza payekha, ndipo munthu wochititsidwa khungu ndi tchimo ili sangathe.

Zizindikiro za kunyada:

• kudzimvera chisoni, kukwiya kwambiri;
• chisangalalo pakati pa ena;
• kudzikuza ndi kudzikuza;
• Kunyada kumawonekera pochititsa manyazi ena ndi kuchepetsa zoyenera zawo;
• kutsutsidwa ndi kutsutsidwa kwa anthu ena, koma kusowa kwathunthu kudzidzudzula;
• mabodza, kunyoza, malingaliro anu omwe ali apamwamba.

Awa si mndandanda wathunthu wa mawonetseredwe a khalidwe ili la umunthu, kunyada kumaperekanso kuchabechabe, chomwe akhoza kupita ku megalomania. Zovuta, zimakhala zovuta kulankhula ndi munthu wotere ndipo pang'onopang'ono amakhala yekha. Kukula kwake ndi chitukuko chake kumangotsala pang'ono kutha, chifukwa chiyani ayenera kuyesetsa kuchita chinachake, ngati ali wangwiro komanso abwino kwambiri.

Ngati mukufuna kudziwa momwe mungathetsere kunyada ndi kudzikuza, choyamba ndibwino kuti mulape ndikuyesa kulimbikitsa chirombo ichi chosasunthika. Yesetsani kukhala odzichepetsa mwa inu nokha, kuyankha mokwanira kutsutsa ndi kumvetsera mawu a ena, kulemekeza maganizo a wina, kuyamikira zomwe muli nazo ndi kusakhumudwitsa anthu ena, kuwalola kuti akhale enieni. Thandizani ena ndikuyang'ana chifukwa choyamika. Apatseni anthu kumwetulira ndi kutentha, ndipo iwo ayankhe.