Kutuluka kwa mwana wakhanda kuchokera kuchipatala ndi chokondweretsa, koma pa nthawi yomweyi ndi chowopsya. Kutuluka m'chipinda, lero mwanayo alowa m'dziko latsopano, monga amayi ake. Chochitikachi chidzakumbukiridwa kwa nthawi yonse ya moyo, choncho ndi bwino kupanga zoyesayesa zomwe lero ndikukumbukira zokondweretsa kwambiri. Kuti tichite izi, mayi wamng'ono yemwe ali ndi nkhawa za bambo ake, komanso achibale achimwemwe, ayenera kuyesa pang'ono.
Chitsanzo cha kuchotsedwa kuchipatala
Kubadwa kwa mwana ndi chisangalalo chachikulu, kutanthauza kuti kuchotsa kuchokera kuchipatala sikungakhale kosasangalatsa. Kuti izi zikhale zoyenera ndikukonzekera zochitika zachipatala pasadakhale. Iyi ndi ntchito ya papa.
Pano pali ndondomeko yaying'ono yokonzekera kubereka mwana wakhanda kuchokera kuchipatala:
- Onetsetsani kuti mugule mkazi wokondedwa wanu maluwa okongola, komanso ogwira ntchito zachipatala omwe amakonzekera zinyenyeswazi.
- Chinthu chachiwiri mu ntchitoyi chidzakhala kuyeretsa. Amayi ndi mwana ayenera kubwerera kunyumba yoyera komanso yokongola. Asanafike, mungakhale pamalo olemekezeka ndi chilembetsero cholembedwa: "Zikomo chifukwa cha mwana wanu wamkazi" Kapena "Zikomo chifukwa cha mwana wanu!".
- Sizingakhale zodabwitsa kukongoletsa chipinda chokomera kuchipatala chakumayi. Mungathe kuchita izi ndi anzanu pogwiritsa ntchito mipira kapena kugwiritsa ntchito makampani omwe amakonza zochitika zoterezi.
- Ngati mukufuna, mukhoza kuitanitsa chithunzi ndi kanema. Tangoganizirani momwe zidzakhalire zabwino, zaka zingapo pambuyo pake, kuti muwone kanema yoyamba yogwira zinyenyeswazi zanu.
- Chinthu chotsatira chovomerezeka ndi kukongoletsa kwa galimoto imene mumakumana nayo mayi ndi mwana wanu. Kuti muchite izi, mungagwiritse ntchito mipira ya inflatable, zojambulajambula, zomwe zikuimira sitirowe ndi mwana, matepi, ndi zina zotero.
- Onetsetsani kuti muthokoze mkazi wanu yemwe adakupatsani chozizwitsa chaching'ono! Mugule iye mphatso yomwe idzakhala yopindulitsa kwa iye. Musalole kukhala zinthu zazing'ono. Pankhaniyi sizolondola. Koma chinthu chofunikira kwambiri ndikuthokoza wokondedwa wanu moona mtima komanso mwachikondi.
Tsopano muli ndi chitsanzo momwe mungakonzekeretsedwe kuchokera kuchipatala kuti chikumbukire kwa nthawi yaitali.
Lembani kulembera kuchipatala
Kotero, tsopano kuchokera ku bungwe la chipatala kuchokera kuchipatala ife timadutsa zinthu zosafunikira kwenikweni, monga kulemba mndandanda pa chotsitsa kuchokera kunyumba ya amayi oyembekezera. Tiyenera kukumbukira kuti pokonzekera zinthu zomwe zikufunika kuti zitheke, m'pofunika kuganizira za nyengo. Mwachitsanzo, ngati kachidutswa ka chipatala chikuchitika m'chilimwe ndipo kutentha kuli pamsewu, mwana sangasowe zinthu monga chipewa, blanket ya cotoni, diaper ya flannel, ndi zina zotero.
Zokonzedweratu zapadera kuchokera kunyumba ya amayi omwe akuyamwitsa malinga ndi nyengo zidzakhala pafupifupi zotsatirazi:
- diaper kapena flannel diaper;
- bulangete ndi chivundikiro cha chivomezi chochotsera chipatala kuchipatala - kachiwiri chidzadalira kuti nyengo ili kunja kwawindo, kapena flannel, ubweya wa thonje kapena thonje;
- Envelope ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yatsopano. Ikhoza kukhala ofunda kapena owonda kwa nyengo yozizira.
- mabotolo - lolani mmodzi akhale wosavuta, ndipo winayo ayambe kutentha;
- kapu - ngati kuli kuzizira, ndiye ukhoza kukhala ndi ziwiri;
- paschonki - komanso ziwiri: kuwala ndi kutentha;
- ngodya yomwe imachokera kuchipatala;
- chojambula;
- nsalu yabuluu kapena pinki.
Pakalipano, azimayi achichepere ayambitsa ntchitoyo, ndipo zomwe zimatchedwa kuti makiti ochotsera mankhwala m'chipatala agulitsidwa. Zimaphatikizapo zonse zomwe mumafunikira kwa mwana (makoswe, mabotete, yazhonki ndi ngodya), kotero mutha kugula zonse mwakamodzi. Pakatuluka kuchokera kuchipatala, mapasa, ndithudi, amafunika chida chachiwiri.
Tsopano tiyeni tiyankhule za amayi anga, kapena m'malo mwake zomwe angafunikire atachotsa kuchipatala:
- Zobvala zamkati, ndiko, mapepala ndi bra pofuna kudyetsa;
- zokopa kapena masitomala, komanso zovala kunja ngati nyengo ikuzizira kunja;
- mathalauza, skirt kapena kavalidwe pa chipatala cha chipatala ayenera kukhala mfulu kapena zokhazo zomwe mwanayo amavala panthawi yoyembekezera, chifukwa pomwe atangobereka, mawonekedwe akale a thupi sakhala ndi nthawi yobwerera;
- jekete limene lingakhale labwino kuti mudyetse mwanayo, ngati mwadzidzidzi liyenera kuchitidwa pakhomo;
- Nsapato zabwino, makamaka popanda zidendene zapamwamba;
- chovala chodzola;
- mapepala obwera pambuyo.
Izi ndizofunikira zoyenera kuchotsera kuchipatala.