Atsikana ambiri akudikirira nthawi yomwe mnyamata wawo adzakhala pa bondo limodzi ndipo adzanena mawu omwe akhala akudikira kwa nthawi yayitali, koma nthawizina oimira ogonana amphamvu amachita mosiyana, ndikudabwa nawo theka lawo lachiwiri.
Malingana ndi zofukufuku, anyamata ambiri akufuna kapena apereka kupereka kwa mtsikana wawo mwa njira zosazolowereka. Amatsutsa kuti akufuna kuchoka kumbali ndi kukonzekera chinachake choyambirira ndi chosayembekezereka. Nkhani zomwe zili pansipa zimatsimikizira kuti mukhoza kuyima pakati pa onse, kukhala ndi malingaliro ndi chikhumbo chachikulu.
1. Dulani mu mpira kuti musambe
Pa tsamba lake la Twitter, msungwanayo adagawana nawo zithunzi za olembetsa za momwe wokondedwa wake amamufotokozera. Pa imodzi mwa zithunziyi munali mpira wa mchere wa bafa, umene unaperekedwa kwa iye ndi mnyamata. Pamene adayiyika ndikuyamba kusamba, adawona phula la pulasitiki, lomwe linali ndi mphete. Iye mwachiwonekere sanali kuyembekezera chiganizo choterocho.
2. Lembani mabokosi
Trey Amsler anasankha kuzunza mtsikana wake pang'ono ndikumupatsa bokosi lalikulu la mphatso. Pamene adatsegula, adawona bokosi lina, limene linalipo chimodzimodzi ndi zina zotero. Zotsatira zake, anayenera kusindikiza mabokosi ena ena, ndipo pangŠ¢ono kakang'ono anali mphete yamtengo wapatali.
3. Pembedzani pa bala
Mnyamata wina wochokera ku Karachaevo-Cherkessia adasankha njira yoperekera mphete yokondedwa ku ntchito yake, yemwe anali namwino. Panthawi imeneyo, anali ndi zilonda (momwe anachidziwira, mbiri sizakhala chete), ndipo adafunsa mnzakeyo kuti dokotalayo amubisire mosamala. Pambuyo pake, adatembenukira kwa namwali wake kuti amuthandize namwino, kumupempha kuti amuthandize ndikuchotsa chinthu chophwanyika. Atazindikira kuti chovala ichi, adalira ndikumuuza "inde".
4. Dulani m'bokosili ndi chakudya
Sikuti aliyense akulakalaka kupeza chovala chofunika kwambiri m'bokosi lofiira, mwachitsanzo, nkhani ya Karsin Long, yemwe amakonda amakonda kwambiri. Mnyamata wake adagwiritsa ntchito mwayi umenewu ndipo tsiku la Valentine adagula bokosi lalikulu la zomwe amakonda. Mtsikanayo atatsegula ndipo adawona mpheteyo, adamwetulira ndikumulola kuti avomereze.
5. Pembedzani mkati
Mnyamatayo atazindikira kuti adapeza mtsikana wa maloto ake, adalamula mkanda wapadera wa nkhuni kuchokera kwa mbuye wa Australia, kubisa mpheteyo mkati mwake. Anapereka chikondwerero kwa mtsikanayo popanda kumuuza chilichonse. Ankavala kwa nthawi yoposa chaka chimodzi munthu asananyamule mphindi yoyenera kuti adziwe mawu olakalaka. Pamene iwo anali mu malo okongola, iye anagwada, anatsegula mkanda kutsogolo kwa maso ake ndi kuika mphete pa chala chake. Iye anadabwa kwambiri ndipo anadandaula ndi wokondedwa wake, ponena kuti akhoza kutaya zokongoletserazi.
6. Dulani mu dzira
Erica ankagwira ntchito monga mtolankhani, ndipo adayenera kuwombera lipoti la momwe angaphike mazira moyenera. Chibwenzi chake chinamudabwitsa ndipo chinagwirizana ndi okonza dongosololi kuti amuthandize kuzindikira cholinga chake. Anabisa mpheteyi mu dzira la nkhuku, ndipo nthawi itakwana kuphika zikondamoyo, mtsikanayo adathyola mazira ndipo anadabwa kuona kuti mpheteyo ndi mnyamata wake akutuluka kumbuyo.
Kodi mukuganiza kuti n'zosatheka kuika mphete mu dzira lenileni kuti pasapezeke wina? Kenaka lembani malangizo:
- Ndi tsamba lakuthwa, dulani dzira kukhala halves ndi kuchotsa zomwe zili mkati.
- Ikani magetsi ang'onoang'ono m'magawo onsewa kuti mupatse dzira kuchepa pang'ono, ngati kuti ladzaza.
- Lembani ndi mipira ya thonje ndikuyika mphete. Gwirani nyembazo ndi chapamwamba cha guluu. Pofuna kuti msoko usawonekere, phulani chipolopolo cha dzira lina kukhala ufa ndikuwaza malo amtunduwu.
7. Pembedzani mndandanda
Mtsikana Shirin wazaka 42, dzina lake Eric, anayenera kuyembekezera zomwe adafuna kwa zaka zisanu. Mwamunayo adaganiza zomupatsa chisangalalo tsiku lakubadwa kwake. Akuyenda pakiyi, adampatsa mphatso - buku lopangidwa ndi manja, limene munali puzzles osiyanasiyana. Chilakolako chilichonse chimakhudzana ndi nthawi yosangalatsa ya ubale wawo. Ndi wokondana kwambiri!