Kawirikawiri, kutopa pambuyo pa tsiku lovuta la ntchito kumakupangitsa kukana kusamba mbale zowononga. Pamapewa a mkazi, maudindo ambiri nthawi zambiri amatengedwa, chifukwa pambuyo pa ntchito ndikofunikira kudyetsa banja lonse pambuyo pake pali mbale zambiri zosasamba zomwe simukufuna kusamba. Koma pali kuvomereza kwambiri kuti simungasiye mbale zonyansa usiku. Tiyeni tiwone momwe makolo athu anayankhulira funso la chifukwa chake musamasiye mbale zonyansa usiku.
Malingana ndi kutanthauzira kuvomereza, izi zingayambitse mikangano yopanda pake ndi kuphwanya mgwirizano m'banja. M'nthaŵi zakale, pofuna kupeŵa mikangano yosafunika, azimayi ogwira ntchito nthawi zonse amayesera kusamba mbale zonse ndi zitsulo zosadetsedwa musanagone. Chizindikiro cha mbale zonyansa za usiku chimanena kuti mbale zonyansa zakumdima za usiku zimakopa mphamvu zoipa ndi mizimu yoyipa, yomwe imalowa mofulumira m'maganizo a anthu ndi kukwiyitsa zibwenzi, zopanda pake. Nthawi zina izi zingayambitse kusokonezana. Anthu ambiri amakhulupilila kuti usiku umene ziwanda zimadyera mbale zonyansa, pambuyo pake zimadzaza mphamvu zawo zoipa ndi chidziwitso cha woimira gawo lolimba laumunthu, zomwe zimamupangitsa kuti azisokoneza , zomwe zingabweretse mavuto. Mwamuna amene ali mdziko lino akhoza kuyamba kumuopseza mkazi wake kapena kugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu zake.
Komanso fotokozani zaletsedwe za mbale zonyansa komanso kuti amayi abwino amakhala m'nyumba yoyera nthawi zonse, ndipo fumbi, dothi lidzasokoneza munthu aliyense yemwe ali m'chipinda choterocho. Mwamuna yemwe ali ndi chidziwitso amadziwa kuti mkazi ndi woyang'anira nyumba, ndipo ngati sangakwanitse kuchita ntchito yotuluka mnyumbamo, ikhoza kuyambitsa mkwiyo. Posakhalitsa mwamunayo amangochoka,
Kodi ndingasiye mbale zonyansa usiku?
Zizindikiro za mbale zonyansa zidzakhala zofunikira pazochitikazo, ndipo ngati mutasiya mbale zosasamba muzitsamba zotsamba. Chikhulupiriro choterocho n'chothandiza kwambiri, chifukwa chimaphunzitsa kukhala oyera komanso olondola. Chizindikiro chakuti simungasiyire mbale zonyansa usiku kudzamuphunzitsa kuti aziyeretsa osati asanagone, komanso atangomva yekhayo komanso mamembala ake onse, omwe angathandize aliyense. Ndicho chifukwa chake kusunga kapena kusunga chikhulupiliro chotero ndi nkhani yaumwini kwa aliyense, izi ndi njira yabwino yothetsera mikangano yomwe imabuka pa nthaka.