Aliyense, popanda yekha, amayesetsa kusintha moyo wake m'njira iliyonse yabwino, ndipo nthawi zambiri zimakhutiritsa, pakuti wina angawoneke ngati chabe. Koma nchiyani chomwe chimatilimbikitsa ife kuchita mwanjira iyi, ndipo chifukwa chiyani timasankha njira iyi, osati inayo?
Yankho la mafunso amenewa ndilokhudzana ndi chikhalidwe cha munthu , chomwe chimaperekedwa ndi nthawi, zosowa zaumunthu. Ndi za mphamvu zazikuluzikulu zomwe zimatha kuyendetsa khalidwe la munthu amene tidzamuuza m'nkhani yathu.
Chilimbikitso cha chikhalidwe
Timayesetsa kulamulira anthu, mothandizidwa ndi mphamvu, chuma, tikufuna kutsatira malamulo ovomerezeka ndi kulandira chivomerezo cha ena. Zilakolako zimenezi zimapangitsanso kuonjezera chikhalidwe chawo, kuwonjezera kuchuluka kwa ndalama, kutchuka, mphoto kwa ntchito. Wogulitsa aliyense wamalonda, maloto a wotsogolera, namwino kuchipatala akufuna kukhala dokotala, msilikali wamkulu, ndi mtsogoleri wamkulu. Cholinga choterechi cha munthu chimapereka kudzipereka kwake, kumalimbikitsa munthu kuti akwaniritse udindo wa anthu.
Cholinga champhamvu kwambiri cha zochita za munthu ndikumvera ulamuliro, kupereka malamulo kwa akulu, kusunga malamulo a mphamvu, ngakhale kuti nthawi zonse sizingakhale zabwino kwa ife. Mwachitsanzo, malinga ndi lamulo la mkuluyo, ogwira ntchito m'makampani oopsa amalowa m'mabasi, podziwa kuti izi zimavulaza chilengedwe.
Mtundu wina wa chikhalidwe cha anthu ndi chikhalidwe ndi chikhumbo chofikira pamtundu wa anthu otchuka, otchuka komanso opambana. Izi zikuwonetsedwa mwa kutsanzira achinyamata mafano, kutsanzira chitsanzo cha khalidwe ndi mawonekedwe a oimba, ochita masewero, ndale, ndi zina zotero.
Kuchokera ku chirichonse, kumapeto kukuchitika kuti chiŵerengero cha chikhalidwe cha anthu ndi khalidwe labwino la munthu ndizogwirizana zogwirizana momwe chilakolako cha munthuyo chimakula kukhala zosowa.