Pokonzekera mwambo waukwati, ambiri amaphunzira mosamala zizindikiro za ukwati ndi miyambo. Ndikufuna kuchita zonse mwapamwamba, ndipo sindikuitanitsa zovuta, ndikuiwala zizindikiro zina zoipa. Tidzakambirana nkhani zosiyana siyana za nzeru zamtunduwu zomwe zimalola kukonzekera phwando malinga ndi miyambo.
Zizindikiro za maluwa a maluwa
Ukwati wamaluwa ndi chizindikiro cha banja losangalala, ndipo sungaperekedwe kwa aliyense. Mkwatibwi yekha, amayi ake ndi mkwati akhoza kumkhudza. Apo ayi, pali chiopsezo chakuti banja lidzakhala "kuchotsedwa". Maluwa sangathe kumasulidwa m'manja mpaka phwando lomwelo, ndipo ngati kuli kofunikira kuchoka - lingaperekedwe kwa mayi ake okha.
Ndicho chifukwa chake mabanja ambiri amapanga bouquets ziwiri - imodzi yokongola ndi yolemerera, yomwe idzakhala ya mkwatibwi, ndipo yachiwiri - yosavuta ndi yosavuta, yomwe iyenera kuponyedwa pamapewa ndi abwenzi ake. Mwa njira, iyi ndi mwambo watsopano, wosagwirizana ndi Asilavic akale.
Pali zizindikiro ziwiri zosiyana ndi zomwe mungachite ndi maluwa pambuyo pa ukwati. Zina zimakhala zosungidwa mu mawonekedwe owuma, kukhulupirira kuti zimabweretsa chimwemwe, ena amaziponya kutali. Chizindikirocho chimati maluwawo ayenera kuwotchedwa, kuti pasakhale wina amene angayambe kusangalala m'banja. Zomwe mwasankha kuti musankhe ndi zanu.
Zizindikiro zaukwati kwa atsikana osakwatiwa
Kwa atsikana osakwatira, ukwati wa chibwenzi ndi njira yabwino yogwiritsira ntchito zizindikiro zabwino zaukwati zomwe zidzawathandize kusintha moyo wawo posachedwa. Mwachitsanzo:
- atakhala pa gome laukwati, akukoka mosakanizika m'mphepete mwa nsalu ya tebulo - izi zimatsimikizira kuti mudzakwatirana mkati mwa zaka ziwiri zotsatira;
- chizindikiro chimati - simungathe kukhala "pa ngodya", izi zimaletsa ukwati;
- palinso chizindikiro chosiyana: ngati mtsikanayo wakhala "pakona", ndiye mkwati adzamupatsa "ngodya" - ndiko kuti, ndi malo ake okhala;
- chizindikiro chimati - ngati mlendo amakugwiritsani mwatsamba (champagne!) - posachedwa mudzakwatirana;
- kuvina ndi munthu amene akukhala pafupi ndi inu patebulo - choipa: kotero mumaleka ukwati wanu; kwa kuvina muyenera kusankha omwe akukhala kutali ndi inu.
Inde, simungakhoze kuiwala za chinthu chofunika kwambiri: kugwira maluwa a mkwatibwi - kuukwati wakale. Ndicho chifukwa paukwati wina pali kupha kwenikweni kwa maluwa omwe amayembekezera kwa nthawi yayitali!
Zizindikiro zaukwati kwa mboni
Pali zizindikiro zambiri zomwe zimasonyeza amene angasankhe kukhala mboni. Tsopano izi sizofunikanso kwaukwati, koma mabanja ambiri amatsatirabe mwambowo. Apa ndikofunikira kukumbukira nzeru za anthu:
- mboni ziyenera kukhala osakwatiwa - banja loopsya kuti lizipereka chisangalalo kwa achinyamata (mu miyambo ya mpingo, ndizo njira ina yozungulira);
- mboni sayenera kukhala pachiyanjano ndi wina - izi ndizonso zoipa;
- palibe mboni zomwe ziyenera kusudzulana - mwinamwake osakwatira sadzakhalanso limodzi kwa nthawi yaitali;
- mboni za ukwati mu mpingo ziyenera kukhala zokwatira, kukhulupirira ndi makamaka - okwatira;
- pakuti mboni kumeneko ndi chizindikiro: kawiri mboni pa ukwatiwo -
Ukwati wachitatu ukhale wanu, mwinamwake mungathe kukhala nokha pa moyo; - Okwatirana akufuula "mowawa", ndi mboni - "zokoma" kapena "zowawa"; kotero ndi bwino kusankha osakwatiwa awiri awiri;
- kotero kuti banjali linali losangalala, mboniyo iyenera kukhala maola angapo ochepa kuposa mkwatibwi.
Pali zonena zambiri - zizindikiro za momwe angayezerere kavalidwe ka ukwati, za tsiku ndi mwezi kuti azichita chikondwerero, komanso ngakhale nyengo yomwe idakalipo lero. Musati mutenge mopepuka kwambiri: ngati muli wokonzeka kugwira ntchito pa ubale ndi kusamvana, banja lanu losangalala kuchokera kwa inu silingapite kulikonse.