Anthu akhala akufunafuna njira zodziwira zam'tsogolo kwa nthawi yaitali. Njira yosavuta komanso yofikira kwambiri ndiyokutanthauzira maloto. Pazimenezi muyenera kuyesetsa kukumbukira zofunikira za chiwembu, mwachitsanzo, kufotokoza maloto a ndevu, yesetsani kukumbukira momwe zimawonekera, mtundu wake, kutalika, ndi zina zotero.
Kodi ndevu imalota chiyani?
Kwa amuna, loto lotero ndilo chiwonongeko cha phindu. Masomphenya ausiku, kumene munthu wachikulire amene ali ndi ndevu amawonekera, ndi chizindikiro chabwino, kutanthauza uthenga wabwino kapena malangizo anzeru omwe angakuthandizeni kuthetsa vuto lomwe liripo. Ngati munthu alota ndevu yoipa komanso yosasamala, ndiye kuti muyenera kuyembekezera kuti mutayala ndi kukhumudwa. Ndevu zakuda ndi chizindikiro cha thanzi. Kupeta ndevu kumalonjeza kupambana mu moyo wanu. Mu bukhu lina la loto, ichi ndi chizindikiro cha vuto ndi zovuta. Kugona, komwe kumakhala ndevu, kumalonjeza kukangana ndi achibale. Ngati mutadula ndevu, ndiye kuti mungathe kuyembekezera zovuta ndi zovuta muzinthu zachuma. Kuwona munthu ali ndi ndevu ndi ndevu zazikulu ndi chizindikiro chabwino, akulosera chuma. Maloto omwe ndevu anali ndi bwenzi akulonjeza.
Nchifukwa chiyani mkazi ali ndi ndevu?
Ambiri akulota mabuku amavomereza kuti loto lotero limalosera maonekedwe a moyo wa munthu woyenera. Kwa azimayi omwe ali ndi ana, ndevu m'maloto ndi malangizo othandiza omwe ndi ofunika kukhala omvera kwambiri ana. Ngati kugonana kwabwino kumalota kuti ndevu zake zikukula, ndiye kuti mukhoza kudalira kukwaniritsidwa kwa chikhumbo chofunika kwambiri. Masomphenya ausiku, kumene wolota anakumana ndi mkazi wa ndevu - ichi ndi chizindikiro choipa, kuneneratu zowonongeka ndi zokhumudwitsa zosiyanasiyana. Ngati ndevu zikadzakula mwamsanga, zikutanthauza kuti ubale wakale ukhoza kuyambiranso. Kwa akazi mu boma maloto amenewa amalonjeza kubadwa kwa mwana wamwamuna. Kuti mutenge ndevu zanu, ndiye, kupambana kwanu mu ndalama
Nchifukwa chiyani mukulota ndevu zofiira?
Kawiri kawiri, malotowo ndi chizindikiro cha msonkhano ndi wonyenga. Tikulimbikitsidwa kukonzekera kusakhulupirika, ndipo izi zidzachitika kuchokera kwa wokondedwa, yemwe panthawi yomwe walota amakhulupirira.
N'chifukwa chiyani maloto a ndevu imvi?
Maloto oterewa akutanthauza kuti mwamsanga mungathe kudalira kuti zonse zoyenera zidzakondedwa. Tsitsi lina la imvi ndilo chizindikiro cha ulemu ndi ulemu. Mmodzi wa otanthauzira maloto amaona malotowo ngati chizindikiro choipa, chomwe chimalonjeza choipa cha gulu "lakuda" .