Tonsefe kuyambira m'nthano za chikondi za ubwana, zambiri za chikondizi zimasinthidwa kukhala akuluakulu, chifukwa amakhulupirira chozizwitsa, poti zabwino zimapambana zoipa. Koma pamene mukukula, ana amakhalanso ndi malingaliro ambiri: mantha, kusungulumwa, chisoni, kukwiya. Izi zimachitika kuti maonekedwe awo samamvetsetsa ndi makolo kapena ana omwe. Pachifukwa ichi, akatswiri a maganizo amavomereza kuti ayese njira imodzi yothandizira mafilimu - nkhani zamakono za ana. Chimodzi mwa ubwino wa zotsatirazi pa psyche ya mwana ndi chakuti mayi angathe kuthandiza mwanayo, komanso njira zothandizira ana kuthetsa mavuto a ana angagwiritsidwe ntchito kwenikweni kuchokera pa kubadwa.
Phunzirani kulankhula
Ana omwe ali ndi matenda a m'maganizo akhoza kukhala ndi vuto lalikulu la kulankhula chifukwa chosowa chidwi, kulingalira, kukumbukira. Akatswiri ambiri amanena za kugwiritsidwa ntchito bwino kwa mankhwala achiheberi ndi mankhwala olankhula, chifukwa kulondola kwa mawu kumadalira pazinthu zambiri. Kuthandiza mwana kukhala womasuka kwambiri, wokhoza kumverera ndi ena, mumachepetseratu mawu ofunikira. Mwanayo adzafulumira kulingalira ndipo ndi bwino kwambiri kuphunzira zomwe akuphunzitsidwa.
Chotsani mavuto
Komabe, ntchito yaikulu ya chithandizo cha mwana wamasiye ndiyo kukonza maganizo ndi maganizo a mwanayo, khalidwe lake, kuchotsa mantha ndi phobias. Palibe chifukwa chakuti kuyambira nthawi zakale anthu amagwiritsa ntchito nkhaniyi kuti afotokoze zomwe zinachitikira, choncho ana amamvetsa ndikumvetsa chinthu chachikulu mofulumira, chifukwa chake kugwiritsa ntchito njira zochizira ana ndizofunikira kwambiri pa chitukuko cha mwanayo.
Timapanga nkhani ya nthano
Pa gawo loyambalo, makolo angafunike thandizo la katswiri, athandizidwe pakupanga nkhani yokha - maziko a chithandizo chamatsenga. Kulemba, ndikofunika kutsatira dongosolo lina:
- sankhani khalidwe lalikulu - liyenera kukhala lofanana ndi mwana wanu: khalidwe, malingaliro, zochita;
- Fotokozani njira ya moyo wa chikhalidwe kotero kuti cholengedwa chaching'ono chidziwe kuti ali ndi zofanana;
- Fotokozani za vuto la msilikali kapena zinthu zomwe zimawopsya mwana wanu;
- ndipo chofunikira kwambiri - kusonyeza zochepa zochokera ku zovuta, sankhani bwino, ndipo, chofunikira, afotokoze msilikali yemwe anathandiza kuthetsa vuto;
- Pomalizira, khalidweli liyenera kumvetsetsa kuti adachita zolakwika, ndipo ndi khalidwe liti lomwe lingasinthe chilichonse kuti chikhale chabwino.
Pogwiritsira ntchito mankhwala a fairytale pakugwira ntchito ndi ana, mungathenso kugwiritsira ntchito mwanayo popanga nkhani. Mulole mwanayo mwiniyo atchule njira zingapo zothetsera vuto la msilikali ndikuthandizani kusankha bwino. Izi zidzakuthandizani kuti mumvetse bwino zomwe zimasokoneza wanu, ndipo pakapita nthawi kusintha ndondomeko yake, kuchotsa mantha, phobias, kukwiyitsa, ndipo ichi sichoncho cholinga chachikulu cha mankhwala opatsirana? Pokonzekera, makolo akhoza kukhala ndi mavuto ena polemba nkhani, choncho ndi kofunikira kwambiri pa nthawi yoyamba kuwerenga mabuku apadera, kapena kupempha thandizo kwa katswiri wa zamaganizo yemwe angaperekenso zitsanzo za nthano za chithandizo chamankhwala.
Chitsanzo chabwino
Kamodzi pa nthawi panali Vasya wamng'ono wamphongo. Anali ndi amayi omwe ankamukonda kwambiri, komanso ankamukonda. Kamwanayo ankasangalala kwambiri, ankasewera tsiku lonse, ndipo madzulo anauza mayi anga kuti sangagone. Kotero iye anathamanga ndipo analumpha usiku wonse, ndipo m'mawa iye anatopa ndipo anagona. Ndipo madzulo mwana wa bwenzi lake anali ndi tsiku lobadwa, kumene anzake onse anaitanidwa. Koma kachipatala Vasya sakanakhoza kupita kumeneko, chifukwa anali atagona. Ndipo nditadzuka madzulo, ndinakhumudwa kwambiri. Kuyambira pamenepo, wasankha kumvera mayi ake nthawi zonse ndi kukagona pa nthawi.
Ubwino wa nthano
Njira zopezera njirayi ndizo zambiri: mothandizidwa ndi izo mukhoza kuthandiza osati mwana yekha, komanso wamkulu. Kufotokozera mwachidule, tikhoza kunena kuti kuwonjezera pa kugaŵana nawo, tanthauzo la moyo, kumvetsa "chabwino ndi choipa,
Ndikufuna kuti muzindikire kuti musanayambe "mankhwala" pogwiritsa ntchito nthano, ndikofunikira kudziwa ngati dziko lanu laling'ono lophiphiritsira ndi losiyana ndi chenicheni. Onetsetsani kuti muganizire za umunthu wa mwanayo. Kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala a feytale kuti akule bwino ana awo, makolo amathandizira kuti akhale ndi tsogolo labwino komanso losangalala. Njira imeneyi idzakuthandizani mwana wanu kuti azikhala otsimikiza kwambiri akakula, ndipo chikondi chanu ndi chidwi chanu zidzakhala zozizwitsa zenizeni!