Kotero ndi zomwe mukufunikira kuthetsa mavuto!
Sizobisika kuti asungwanawo amaganizira mwatsatanetsatane za kavalidwe kawo, ngakhale kuti adzidziwe bwino ndi mkwatibwi akadakalibe. Eya, tsiku lofunika kwambiri likatengedwa ndi kalata yofiira pa kalendala, ndiye kuti kavalidwe ka mkwatibwi okwatirana amakonzekera kumapeto kwa dziko lapansi, kuti akhale ochepa thupi komanso azikhala ndi chikumbumtima.
Ndicho chifukwa chake nkhani ya mkwati waukwati wa Monique Penberthy wazaka 31 (Monique Penberthy) wochokera ku Australia ku Melbourne adalandira chisokonezo chotere. Ayi, mtsikanayu sanalembe zolemba zonse za mtengo wa kavalidwe, zosankha za mtundu kapena kudula kodabwitsa. Monique atalephera kupeza mkanjo wake waukwati, zomwe iye analota, iye amangopita pansi pa korona ... wamaliseche!
Ngakhale zili choncho, ndibwino kuti ndikufotokozereni zonse zomwe zikuchitika ... Zomwe zikuchitika kuti ndi mkazi wake wam'tsogolo - mtsikana wina wazaka 27, dzina lake Rowan Monique, anakumana ndi November 2014 pa intaneti.
Okondawo nthawi yomweyo adapeza zofunikanso - chikondi cha agalu. Pambuyo pa msonkhano mu moyo weniweni mu March 2015, banjali silinayambe kukayikira maganizo awo ndikukhazikitsa tsiku la ukwati - tsiku la Valentine chaka chamawa.
Ndipo mochulukirapo, Monique ndi Rowan ankafuna kuchita mwambo waukwati pachiyambi cha tiyi kuchokera ku "Alice mu Wonderland"!
Monique Penberty anati: "Tinalamula holo, osankha mboni ndi akazi ogwira ntchito, ndipo tinkachita lendi siliva," koma vuto lalikulu kwambiri kwa ine linali kusankha zovala zanga. Chifukwa cha zochitika za chiwerengerocho (ndi kulemera kwake kwa Monique ndi pafupifupi makilogalamu 165), ndinakhala ndikufufuza miyezi ingapo, koma ndinapeza chovala choyenera kwambiri cha minyanga ya njovu ... "
Mwatsoka, pa Tsiku la Onse Okonda, Monique ndi Rowan alephera kukhala okwatirana palamulo - pa tsiku lachidziwitso la msungwanayo yemwe adalowa m'chipatala kumene adayikidwa matenda osokoneza bongo - necrotizing fasciitis.
Malingana ndi zizindikiro, matendawa amayamba kufalikira m "mitsempha ndi mitsempha, kenako khungu limakhala lofiira ndipo limayamba kufa. Momwemo, sizinali zokhudza ukwati, chifukwa sakudziwika ngati mtsikanayo adzapulumuka kapena ayi.
Pofuna kuti apulumutse Monique, madokotala amayenera kumuika m'thupi lachidziwitso, kenako opaleshoni amuchotseretsa ndi kuchotsa mnofuwo.
Mwachidziwitso, msungwanayo adakhala masiku 31 ndi ena 73 pa bedi lachipatala atauka.
Mkwatibwi nthawi yonseyi anali pafupi ndi kusamalira ana awiri a mapazi ake anayi. Koma Monique atangofika pamapazi ake - funso la ukwati linali chinthu chofunika kwambiri pazinthu zamakono. Tsoka, amayi ake a Monique adachotsa zonse zomwe anakonza kale, ndipo zovalazo zidagulidwa kale ndi wina ...
Koma patadutsa nthawi yayitali, mkwatibwi adadziŵa kuti sangapeze kavalidwe kogwirizana ndi chifaniziro chake, adaganiza zovuta - kuti akwatirane mu chophimba chimodzi.
Monique akuti: "Koma zomwe ndapulumuka ndikupulumuka mozizwitsa, zinali zofanana ndi ine." Pamene iye anaonekera koyamba wamaliseche pamaso pa alendo athu, iye anachita mantha! Ndiyeno ndinayang'ana pozungulira ndikuzindikira kuti aliyense anali kusekerera pa ine ndikuwomba. Chithandizo choterocho n'chokhudza! "
Ndikoyenera kuzindikira kuti mkwati adasankha kuthandizira wokondedwa wake m'malo mwa suti yochenjera analumbirira kuti ali womvera ndi ndodo.
Chochititsa chidwi n'chakuti, pa mwambowu, Monique ndi Rowan anaitanidwa ndi alendo pafupifupi 100 ...
... koma adakondwerera kampaniyi pang'ono - anthu ena 600 adanyamuka kukayang'anitsitsa banja lolimba mtima lomwe likukondana!