Maloto amapereka mpata woyang'ana m'tsogolo. Kuti muchite izi, nkofunika kufotokoza molondola zizindikiro zomwe zawonedwa. Ngati mwawona bokosi lotsekedwa, yesetsani kukumbukira momwe likuwonekera, munalibe kanthu kapena ayi, zomwe munachita ndikumverera. Zonsezi zidzakupatsani chidziwitso cholondola kwambiri.
N'chifukwa chiyani bokosi lotsekedwa likulota?
Kugona mu bokosi lotsekedwa, ndiye panthawi yomwe iwe uli kumapeto kwa akufa ndipo sudziwa kuti ndi chitsogozo chotani chopitilira. Maganizo ndi malingaliro ambiri samakulolani kulingalira kuti mukwaniritse zolinga zanu. Wotanthauzira maloto amalimbikitsa kuchepetsa, kusintha ndi kuyamba kusuntha kachiwiri. Ngakhale maloto oterowo angakhale chiwonetsero cha kutuluka kwa mavuto muzinthu zakuthupi. Izi zingayambidwe ndi mavuto aakulu kuntchito ndi mu bizinesi. Kuwona bokosi losatsekedwa koma lopanda kanthu mu loto limatanthauza kuti pali mavuto ambiri ndi zochitika m'moyo. Pambuyo panu mukuyembekezera zochitika zachilendo zomwe zingakhale ndi khalidwe lachinsinsi. Ngati bokosi lopanda kanthu, linatsekedwa pansi - izi ndi zotsindika kuti ndizofunikira kukhala tcheru, monga anthu ochokera kumbali yozungulira angapereke.
Kugona, kumene khofi lotsekedwa, yopanda kanthu ndilo chizindikiro choipa chomwe chimalonjeza kuwuka kwa mavuto osiyanasiyana ndi mavuto. M'modzi mwa mabuku a malotowo, bokosi lotsekedwa, mosiyana, limatengedwa ngati chizindikiro choyenera, chomwe chikulosera kutaya chinthu china chosafunikira. Bokosi lokongola, lotsekedwa, lomwe silinayambe kupweteketsa mtima , ndi chisonyezero cha nthawi yosangalatsa mu bwalo la abwenzi. Ndinalakalaka bokosi lamtengo wapatali, lotanthauza kuti mungathe kudzitamandira ndi thanzi labwino. Masomphenya ausiku, pamene bokosi lotsekedwa chatsekedwa m'dzenje, akuchenjeza kuti wokondedwa angafe. Ngati mutseka bokosi nokha, ndi chizindikiro cha kukhala ndi chilakolako choiwala chinachake pamoyo weniweni. Wotanthauzira akuwonetsa kuti ndi nthawi yonena zabwino kwa zakale ndikupita patsogolo.