Zaka mazana angapo zapitazo, zizindikiro zinathandiza kwambiri pamoyo wa munthu. Ankagwiritsidwa ntchito kuphunzira za nyengo ndi zina zam'tsogolo. Pali zikhulupiliro zambiri zomwe zimakhudza ziwalo za thupi. Zizindikiro za anthu zomwe zimapangitsa kuti mkonowo ukhale wonyansa kwambiri, koma ambiri amasokonezeka pazifukwa za miyendo yakumanzere ndi yolondola. Ndichifukwa chake kuli kofunikira kufufuza nkhaniyi mwatsatanetsatane. Khulupirirani kapena ayi, bizinesi ya aliyense, koma chidwi chokhudza chidwi chidzakhala cha aliyense.
Kodi dzanja lamanzere likuwombera chiyani?
Makolo athu amakhulupirira kuti manja ndi gawo lofunikira la thupi ndipo mphamvu zawo zimakopa ndalama. Choncho, kuyabwa pa dzanja lamanja kunali chiwonongeko cha phindu lalikulu. Ndalama zidzabwera mosayembekezereka, mwinamwake wina adzabwezera ngongole yakale kapena mudzalandira bonasi. Chiwongolero champhamvu, chachikulu kwambiri. Pofuna kukopa kutuluka kwa ndalama ndikofunikira kuti mutenge kanjedza kuyambira pamphepete mpaka pakati, ndikupanga zotsatira za kusonkhanitsa ndalama. Finyani dzanja lanu ndi nkhonya ndikuikankhira mu thumba lanu. Anthu ambiri amakhulupirira, mmalo mwake, ngati dzanja lamanzere likuvutitsa, ndiye kuti padzakhala mavuto muchuma. Kutsimikiziridwa ndi mfundo yakuti mbali ya kumanzere ya munthuyo ndiyoyang'anira satana. Komabe anthuwa amaganiziridwa kuti n'zotheka kukhwimitsa dzanja lamanzere kudwala. Osadandaula, zidzakhala zosavuta, monga chimfine. Posachedwapa, muyenera kusamala kwambiri ndikuwonetsetsa thanzi lanu.
Nchifukwa chiyani mkono wakumanzere umasula, malingana ndi momwe akufunira:
- Ngati kusokonezeka kumachitika ndi zala, ndiye kuti aliyense wa asanu ali ndi phindu lake. Mwachitsanzo, chala chachikulu chimakhala ndi mwayi komanso mwayi. Ngati kuyabwa kukupezeka m'dera la ndondomeko yachindunji ndi chizindikiro cha mphamvu ndipo mukhoza kuyembekezera kupambana mu maphunziro ndi ntchito. Pamene chala chapakati cha dzanja lamanzere chikugunda, ndi za ndalama. Ngati nthiti zachabechabe zopanda dzina ziri chizindikiro kuti posachedwapa kudzatha kuthetsa chidwi chosafunikira. Chala chaching'ono chachitsulo chimayimira mazunzo a mavuto. Mwa njira, kuti muwapewe iwo akulimbikitsidwa kuyika mphete yagolidi pa iyo ndipo musachotse iyo mpaka itayaka kuyabwa.
- Ngati dzanja lamanzere likuwombera, limatanthauza kuti wina ayesa kuchepetsa ufulu wanu. Komabe zikhoza kuwonetsa kuti munthu pakalipano sangathe kuthana ndi zolakwika zomwe zilipo kale. Kuti tisakhale ndi mavuto aakulu, tikulimbikitsidwa kuchotsa chiwawa.
- Ngati mutambasula phazi lanu lakumanzere - ichi ndi chenjezo kuti posachedwapa padzakhala mavuto ambiri. Ndibwino kuti musinthe zinthu zonse zofunika ndikuyenda tsiku lotsatira.
- Ngati mbali ya kumanzere ndi yowopsya, ndiye kuti kutsutsana kwakukulu ndi anthu apamtima posachedwapa kudzayamba. Kwa anthu ochita bizinesi, malonjezanowa akulonjeza mavuto. Kuwomba kumalo a mbali ya kumanzere kwa achinyamata kukutanthauza kupeza mwayi wokomana ndi chikondi chako. Ngati pangakhale mavuto pakati pa anthu okwatirana, posachedwapa ziyenera kukhala zosungika, popeza kuti kukonda ena popanda chifukwa kungayambitse mavuto aakulu komanso kusudzulana.
Pali chizindikiro chakuti dzanja lamanzere likukhala kuti likhale losiyana ndi anzanu kapena achibale. Mwinamwake, panthawi yomwe banja lafika, ndipo posachedwapa adzachoka. Kuti msewuwo unali wosavuta, ndipo zonse zinayenda bwino, mukhoza kuchita mwambo wambiri. Pitani pawindo, tambani dzanja lanu lamanzere ndikuwombera, kunena izi katatu:
"Ndi nthawi yoti achoke - msewu wawo udzakhala wosavuta."
Musadandaule pamene mukulekanitsa, chifukwa "kulemetsa" msewu.
Ngati kuyabwa sikudutsa, ndiye, chifukwa chake sizingakhale zozizwitsa, koma, mwina, ndi chizindikiro cha kuyamba kwa matenda ena. Dzanja likhoza kuwombera ngati liri lopanda kapena mapeto a mitsempha agwedezeka.