Musanayambe kuona ngati mwamuna akusintha, ganizirani zomwe mudzachita ndi choonadi. Osati chakuti izo zidzakhala zotonthoza. Ngati simungathe kusokoneza ubalewu, ndi bwino kukhalabe wosangalala. Ndipo pokhapokha ngati zimadalira chidziwitso ichi, padzakhala chisudzulo kapena ayi, ndibwinodi kukumba.
Mmene mungagwire mwamuna pa chiwembu?
Kusintha munthu nthawi zonse kumachita mantha. Malingana ndi chiwerengero, m'mabuku 90%, amuna "akuyenda kumanzere" akuwonekera, chifukwa sangathe kupereka zonse. Choncho, kusintha mwamuna:
- "Kusokonezeka mu umboni", akunena za zinthu zina zosiyana;
- sangathe kutchula kuti ndi ndani ndipo ndi ndani?
- amatchula misonkhano ndi mnzanu - "simumudziwabe";
- amasuta, sakufuna kukambirana zake;
- osayenerera kuyankha mafunso ngati "chifukwa chiyani mwachedwa?";
- amayesa kubisa foni, kusintha mapepala apamtunda;
- adasungira chinsinsi, kuwanyalanyaza kapena kuwanyengerera;
- nthawi zina amalepheretsa kulankhula mofulumira, poopa kumangoyankhula mopanda pake;
- zimakhala zosiyana mosiyana ndi kale.
Kudziwa momwe mungayang'anire ngati mwamunayo wasintha, m'pofunika kulingalira zenizeni: ndikosavuta kuwerengera mayi wina wamuyaya,
Momwe mungamutsutsire mwamuna wake wa chiwembu?
Osati munthu aliyense moona mtima "amasiya" atanyoza mkazi wake. Nthawi zambiri amatha kukana chirichonse kapena kukwiyitsa ("mungaganize bwanji zoterozo?"), Kapena kuyankha ("mwinamwake, kunyoza mfuti?"). Ndicho chifukwa chake musanawatsutse mwamuna wanu wachinyengo , nkofunika kusonkhanitsa "umboni" uliwonse, kapena kukonzekera ndi kudziyesa kuti mumadziwa kale zonse, ndikudzipereka kuti mudzivomereze nokha.
Musanayambe izi, ganizirani: m'pofunikanso kusankha chisankho choonjezera. Ngati simunakonzedwe kutaya mwamuna wanu mulimonsemo, kodi mukufunikira zokambiranazi?