"Aloleni kuti anene kuti palibe ubwenzi pakati pa akazi ..." Ndipo ndi zoona, aloleni iwo anene, koma tikudziwa kuti abwenzi a amayi si nthano, osati nthano, osati chidziwitso, koma chodabwitsa kwambiri. Kawirikawiri, bwenzi lapamtima lithandizira, kusangalala, kusangalala kapena kulira ndi ife. Ndipo, ndithudi, pamene chibwenzi chathu ali ndi tchuthi, timadzifunsa tokha, kodi mungapereke mphatso yanji kwa bwenzi lanu? Pambuyo pake, kuchotsa knickknack sikoyenera, ndipo kufunsa si njira yabwino kwambiri. Kodi izi ndi zodabwitsa bwanji ?! Pankhaniyi, muyenera kuganiza ndi kubwera ndi mphatso yapachiyambi kwa mnzanu wapamtima. Kwa ena, ntchitoyi idzawoneka yophweka kwambiri: Pambuyo pa zonse, mwakhala mabwenzi kwa nthawi yaitali, mukudziwa zofuna ndi zokondana wina ndi mzake, kotero sizidzakhala zovuta kusankha mphatsoyo. Koma sizinthu zophweka, ndipo pali mavuto ena: zambiri zapatsidwa kale kale. Ngati ndi bwenzi laubwana kapena mwakhala mukudziwana kwa zaka zambiri, zikuwoneka kuti malingaliro onse agwiritsidwa ntchito kale ndipo mwatopetsa malire anu a "wopanga mphatso".
Kuchokera pa izi, ziyenera kukumbukira kuti mphatso yachilendo kwa chibwenzi ndi zochitika za kusankha ndizofunika kwambiri. Kuchokera kubwereza kungathe kupulumutsa mphatso zachilendo ndi njira yoyamba ya kuwonetsera kwawo.
Malingaliro apachiyambi kwa mphatso kwa bwenzi lapamtima
Ngati bwenzi lanu limakonda maswiti, ndiye kuti mphatsoyo ili ngati mamasukiti , ndithudi iyenera kulawa. Ikhozanso kukhala keke ndi zolemba zosiyanasiyana, zizindikiro kapena zizindikiro. Zingakhale zosiyana zosiyana, mitundu ndi kudzaza.
Ngati mnzanuyo ndi wothandizira ntchito, ndiye kuti mukhoza kumusangalatsa ndi nsalu yachitsulo kapena chophimba, zomwe zowonjezerako zidzakongoletsedwa. Mungathe kumulembera ndakatulo kapena ndemanga yomwe ili bwino kwambiri ndipo idzakhala yokongoletsa pakhoma ndi chikumbutso chokoma kwa msungwana wa tsiku lobadwa pa zaubwenzi wanu. Ngati mulibe talente kapena simunapezepo, mvetserani mnzanuyo ndi chithunzi cha zithunzi ndi zithunzi zojambulidwa, zomwe zidzatenga nthawi zabwino kwambiri za ubwenzi wanu. Idzakhala mphatso yapachiyambi kwa mnzanu amene ndithudi adzakumbukira nthawi yaitali. Chinthu chabwino kwambiri chikhoza kukhala chithunzi chapadera cha msungwana wa tsiku lobadwa kapena mgwirizano wanu, umene ukhoza kulamulidwa kuchokera kwa akatswiri ojambula.
Bukuli lidzakhala mphatso yabwino kwa mtsikana yemwe amakonda mabuku, kuwerenga. Ikhoza kukhala buku la wolemba wake wokondedwa kwambiri kapena mndandanda wa ntchito. M'kati mwake, mukhoza kuika khadi ndi zabwino.
Njira yabwino kwambiri - zizindikiro za mphatso: saluni, kugula, thupi labwino , dziwe losambira, spa. Posankha zodabwitsa zoterezi, tsatirani zofuna za msungwana wakubadwa, ganizirani za khalidwe lake, mtundu wa ntchito yomwe akufuna.
Ngati mnzanuyo ndi wophika ndipo amakonda kuphika zakudya zosiyanasiyana, ndiye amachitira anzanu, komanso ngati mphatso, mum'patse buku lalikulu lophika, mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya zofukiza kapena zopangira zokometsera masamba ndi zipatso.
Ambiri amakonda mphatso zaumwini: chikho chokhala ndi dzina, pillow ndi chithunzi, T-sheti yomwe mumajambula zithunzi. Zoonadi, mphatso yoteroyo siidzachoka msungwana wanu wakubadwa.
Ngati chibwenzicho ndi chonyada cha zinthu zamtengo wapatali komanso zokongola, ndiye kuti simungasunge ndalama kuti mumusangalatse. Mphatso yabwino pazifukwa izi ndizodzikongoletsera zokwera mtengo, mafuta onunkhira, thumba, zovala zamkati kapena ubweya wa silika. Ngati mungathe kupeza njirayi, mukhoza kugula zodzikongoletsera, zomwe palibe mkazi angayime.
Perekani mphatso kuchokera ku mtima wangwiro, kuzidzaza ndi chikondi ndi chisamaliro!