Azimayi amadziwa machenjerero ambiri omwe amatha kukondweretsa mnyamata osati kungodzimana okha, komanso patali. Chifukwa cha matekinoloje amakono: intaneti ndi mauthenga apakompyuta, zimakhala zosavuta kugwiritsa ntchito. Ambiri mwa anthu okonda zachiwerewere amafunitsitsa momwe angakondweretse mnyamata ndi SMS kuti afune kubwerera mwamsanga ndi kukambirana bwino.
Zochita zoterezi zidzathandiza pamene wokondedwayo ali kutali, mwachitsanzo, anapita paulendo kapena bizinesi, makamaka, pamene pali mtunda waukulu pakati pa okondedwa. Mauthenga adzakuthandizani pamene mukufuna kumangiriza munthu, kusonyeza umunthu wawo ndi kusewera. Mauthenga apamtima adzathandiza kubweretsa mgwirizano ndi chiyanjano china payekha kuti wachinyamatayo ndi wosakayika. Ndipo potsiriza, mauthenga a chikhalidwe choyandikana angakhale zosangalatsa chabe.
Kodi mungakondweretse bwanji mnyamata mu SMS?
Kuphunzira kukondana ndi mauthenga ndi kovuta, koma zonse zikhoza kuphunzitsidwa, padzakhala chikhumbo. Ngati kukambitsirana kuli ndi mnyamata yemwe pachibwenzi adangoyamba kumene, ndikofunika kumvetsetsa zolakwika, kuti munthu asawopsyeze. Kuyankhulana ndi wokondedwa kungathe kuchitika popanda zoletsedwa ndi malingaliro .
Kodi mungasangalatse bwanji mnyamata?
- Ngati mnyamata yemwe muli nawo makalata, akugonana, ndiye poyankhulana mungakumbukire kukhudzana kumeneku. Muuzeni za mmene mumamvera komanso mmene mumamvera. Mwamunayo amaganiza kale kupita kumbuyo ndipo ayenera kusangalala. Pambuyo pake, mutha kugonana kale pafoni.
- Amayi ambiri amasangalatsidwa ndi mutuwu, ndi mawu ati omwe mungamukonde mnyamata kuti athetse chikhumbo. Akatswiri amalimbikitsa kugwiritsa ntchito mawu ndiwiri. Izi ndi zowona kuti zimakhudzidwa ndi chidwi ndi munthu, ndikumuchititsa chidwi chenicheni.
- Mungagwiritse ntchito mfundo zosavuta zomwe zingamulimbikitse mnyamata kuti atengepo kanthu. Mwachitsanzo, mungathe kukambirana za maloto osokoneza bongo kapena za malingaliro anu. Zidzakhala zokondweretsa munthuyu, ndipo adzafuna kuzindikira zonsezi pa foni, ndiyeno, m'moyo weniweni.
- Njira yowonjezera yokondweretsa mnyamata kudzera pa SMS ndi kulemba nthano yaying'ono pomwe chiyambi cha chiganizocho chimawonekera mu chiganizo chilichonse, ndipo mapeto ayenera kuganiziridwa ndi wokondedwayo pogwiritsa ntchito malingaliro ake.
- Zotsatira za 100% zimapereka mauthenga osayembekezereka a chikhalidwe chokwanira. Talingalirani kuti ngati muwatumizira, mwachitsanzo, pamene ali pamsonkhano wofunikira kapena kulankhulana ndi makolo ake, sizidzasangalatsa, koma zimamukwiyitsa.
- Kuti mukondweretse wokondedwa wanu, zingadabwe. Mwachitsanzo, kumayambiriro kwa tsiku logwira ntchito mukhoza kulembera kwa iye kuti madzulo kudzakhala kotentha ndikugona mwamtendere, sangathe. Pambuyo pake, kuyankha mafoni kapena ma SMS, sikofunikira. Maganizo ndi maloto nthawi zonse
za madzulo, zidzangowonjezera chidwi komanso zidzasangalatsa.
Ngati mulibe malingaliro okwanira ndi momwe mungakondweretse mnyamata ndi mauthenga, ndiye kuti ndi bwino kulembera mauthenga a chikhalidwe chosasangalatsa, osati kutulukira china chirichonse, koma kukumbukira nthawi zowala zomwe zakhala zikuchitikira pamodzi. Kuti muonjezere zotsatira, mutha kutumiza uthenga wa mawu kapena kupanga chithunzi cholakwika. Masiku ano, mafoni ambiri amakulolani kutumiza ndi mauthenga a kanema, zomwe zimawathandiza chidwi kwambiri.
Zinganenedwe ndi kuvomereza kuti n'zosavuta kukondweretsa mnyamata, chofunika kwambiri, musakhale wamanyazi ndi kulemba zonse kuchokera mumtima. Malingana ndi kafukufukuyu, amuna ambiri amasangalala pamene chibwenzi chimalongosola momveka bwino zithunzi za kugonana ndikupitiriza kulankhulana bwino.