Pamene tsiku lachiwiri la kubadwa kwa mwana layandikira, makolo ambiri amawopsya kuona kuti karapuz yawo yokongola komanso yomvera imakhala yosasamala. Hysteria pa chifukwa chilichonse komanso popanda chifukwa, khate losatha, chidwi chachikulu ndi mawu akuti "Ine ndekha" amachititsa kuti amayi ndi abambo azisokonezeka nthawi zonse, motsogoleredwa ndi kutentha. Momwe mungaphunzitsire mwana wamwamuna wazaka ziwiri ndikufotokozedwa m'nkhani yathu.
Mfundo za kulera ana kwa zaka ziwiri
Kulera mwana zaka 2 - sizingakhale zosavuta konse, simungasokonezedwe ndi ziphuphu zatsopano, koma simungafotokoze zambiri. Pa msinkhu uwu mwanayo akukumana ndi vuto loyamba lachidziwitso, mawonetseredwe omwe amachititsa makolowo kukhala ndi mantha. Kuti musunge mitsempha yanu ndi kupeĊµa misozi yosafunika ya ana, makolo ayenera kutsatira malamulo otsatirawa momwe angalerere mwana wazaka 2:
- Kulera mwana wamwamuna wazaka ziwiri kumafuna kugwirizana-ngati waloledwa zaka ziwiri, samvera nthawi imodzimodzi. Ndipo kotero bambo ndi mayi akufunikira kupanga mgwirizano umodzi wogwirizana ndi zolimbikitsa. Ngati mmodzi wa makolo adaletsa chinachake, ndiye kuti chachiwiri sichiyenera kulola izi. Mawu oti "ayi", otchulidwa ndi makolo, ayenera kukhala omalizira ndi opanda chilolezo.
- Ziribe kanthu momwe mwanayo amachitira zoipa, khalani bata. Musakwiyire nthawi iliyonse mwanayo ali ndi nthendayi . Phunzirolo silipanda phindu, chifukwa panthawi yomwe mwanayo samakumva ndipo sakukuwonani. Molimba mtima ndi mwakachetechete amachotsa mwana wakuthayo wa omvera - amutengere ku chipinda china kapena kutuluka panokha. Posakhalitsa kupereka makonti sipadzakhala aliyense yemwe, mwanayo adzakhazikika. Pamene mwana wachetechete amayamba kumunyamulira ndikumupsompsona, ndiuzeni momwe mumamukondera.
- Mwana wamwamuna wazaka ziwiri zimakhala zovuta kuti asinthe mwamsanga kuchoka ku ntchito imodzi, choncho amuchenjeze za mapulani anu pasadakhale. Mwachitsanzo, musanatuluke kunthaka, nenani kwa wamng'onoyo, "Tsopano mutenge pang'ono, tidzasonkhanitsa ana anyamata ndikupita kunyumba," ndipo musati muchotse mwatchire.
- Perekani mwanayo ufulu wosankha. Pa msinkhu uwu, akhoza kusankha kale nkhani yachabechabe yomwe akufuna kuimva asanakagone, kapena kuti t-sheti yomwe amavalira kuti ayende. Kumbukirani kuti sipangakhale zinthu zoposa 2-3 zomwe mungasankhe kuti mwana asasokonezedwe.
- Tengani lamulo lakutamanda mwanayo nthawi zonse momwe mungathere: kumvera, kuyesa pakhomo kuthandizira, kugwiritsidwa ntchito zamathoyizi.
- Mmalo mwa mawu oti "kosatheka", auzeni mwanayo zomwe angachite. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mukufuna maswiti musanadye chakudya, anene kuti akhoza kudya apulo kapena nthochi.
- Kupititsa mwanayo ku mphika kumayambira ana omwe ali ndi zaka zakubadwa, mpaka zaka 4-5, "nedobeganiya" pamaso pake ndi yachibadwa. Musakhale wamanyazi kwambiri kwa mwana mukakhala ndi vuto laling'ono.
- Mwana wamwamuna wazaka ziwiri amafunikira gulu la anzanu kuti akule bwino. Mulole iye pa msinkhu uwu, sakudziwa kusewera ndi ana ena, koma amaphunzira zambiri kuchokera kwa iwo. Ngati mwanayo sapita kukaona ana akuyamwitsa, yesetsani kupeza kampani yoyenera kumsasa.
- Ana a msinkhu uwu adziwa dziko lowazungulira pogwiritsa ntchito masewera, choncho, ngati mukufuna kukonza mwana
luso (kusamba, kudziwana ndi ana ena) kutaya vutoli ndi zidole zomwe amakonda. - Ali ndi zaka ziwiri, palibe kusiyana kulikonse komwe angaphunzitsire mnyamata ndi mtsikana. Musakhumudwe ngati mwana wamwamuna wa zaka ziwiri amasankha zidole za atsikana, zidole, oyendayenda, ndipo msungwanayo sangathe kuchotsedwa ku magalimoto ndi pisituni. Mofananamo, palibe chifukwa chofunsira mnyamatayo pa msinkhu wotere kuti asamveke maganizo pamutu wakuti "Amuna samalira."
- Kumbukirani kuti ana aang'ono ali peremachivy kwambiri. Mukawona chinthu chokhumudwitsa komanso chosayenerera pamakhalidwe a mwanayo, mumamva mawu amphamvu kuchokera pakamwa pake-kuyang'anitsitsa poyamba. Mwinamwake, mwana wanu amasindikiza pa izi, inu, makolo ake.