Chinyumba chokhazikika? N'zosatheka, mwinamwake, munda, kumene kukolola kuli kwathunthu. Kuphika, kutsuka, kuyeretsa, mamembala saona kuti ndi kofunikira ngakhale kusamba kapu. Zodziwika bwino? Vuto la kugawana maudindo m'banja si latsopano, mabanja ambiri omwe ali ndi ana ndipo popanda zovuta kupeza njira yothetsera vutoli. Malinga ndi ufulu wa alimony ndi maudindo a mamembala awo, angapangidwe kupyolera mu makhoti, ndipo ndi chiyani chomwe chiyenera kuchitidwa ndi nkhani zapakhomo? Simudzakhala ndi chikwapu pamwamba pa aliyense, kukakamiza kutenga nawo ntchito zapakhomo.
Kodi mungagawane bwanji maudindo m'banja?
Inde, pali mabanja omwe ufulu ndi ntchito za mamembala awo zimagawidwa paokha, palibe chifukwa choyesera kuyesa kukhazikitsa nyumbayo. Koma mgwirizanowu siwowonjezera, ndipo si kovuta kuti anthu awiri agwirizane pa omwe amapeza zowonongeka pa tsiku liti, ndipo pamene ana awonekera, vutoli silingatheke. Koma njira zothetsera vutoli ziripo, pali njira zingapo zoperekera maudindo m'banja, muyenera kusankha zomwe zili zoyenera kwa banja lanu ndi chikhalidwe ndi khalidwe.
- Mungathe kuyenda mosiyana - chitani chilichonse, mlungu umodzi, sabata lina.
- Pali kusiyana kwa magawo a maudindo m'banja - mkazi wa pakhomo ali wotanganidwa, mwamuna amapeza ndalama. Osati cholakwika, pamene mwamuna ndi mutu wa banja, khoma lamwala, wotetezera ndi getter. Koma lamulo limeneli silikugwirizana ndi mabanja omwe mwamuna kapena mkazi amalamulira kapena kufanana.
- Ngati mkazi amanga ntchito ndipo amachititsa bajeti yaikulu, ndi zachibadwa kuti alibe nthawi yophika ndi kuyeretsa. Pankhaniyi, pali njira ziwiri zokha - mwamuna amakhala mkazi wa nyumba kapena ntchito zapakhomo
amapatsidwa kwa wogwira ntchitoyo. - Ndizofanana mu banja (ndiko kuti, chitetezo chakuthupi chimakhala pa mapewa a onse awiri), ndipo maudindo ayenera kukhala ogawikana mofanana. Lolani aliyense m'banja achite zomwe angathe komanso angathe. Kuphika ayenera kukhala yemwe amadziwa momwe angachitire, aliyense angathe kusamba mbale (kupatula ana ang'onoang'ono ndi odwala omwe ali pabedi), akhoza kutenga nawo mbali pokonza ndi kukulitsa ana ndi mwamuna.
Kambiranani pa bungwe la banja nkhani yogawa ntchito, musagwirizanenso mwachifundo kachiwiri kuti mutenge mulu wonse wa zosamalidwa.