Imfa ya wokondedwa ndichisoni chachikulu, koma pamodzi ndi izi, mavuto ambiri ali pamapewa a achibale, omwe ayenera kuthetsedwa mwamsanga. Pachifukwa chachikulu, izi zimakhudza miyambo ya kuikidwa m'matchalitchi.
Kodi requiem ndiyitanji liti?
Utumiki wa maliro ndi utumiki wa tchalitchi womwe umaperekedwa kwa wakufayo, komanso ngakhale masiku a kubadwa kwake, mngelo ndi kudzuka. Mzimu utachoka mu thupi, umadutsamo mayesero ambiri, choncho umangofuna kuthandizidwa ndi mpingo. Zimakhulupirira kuti requiem imathandiza moyo kukhala wosavuta kusintha moyo wina.
Kumvetsa zomwe requiem mu mpingo ndizoyenera kunena kuti ndibwino kuti mukonzekere:
- Pa tsiku lachitatu pambuyo pa imfa, moyo umagwera pa kupembedza Mulungu, choncho ndi bwino kuti ulamulire mwambo wa maliro tsiku limenelo kuti ukhale ndi moyo. Ndi bwino kumufunsa wansembe kuti azitumikira pafupi ndi manda.
- Pa tsiku lachisanu ndi chinayi mphambu makumi asanu ndi anai, nayonso, moyo umabwera kwa Mulungu ndipo maliro afunika kumabwereza kachiwiri.
- Kupyolera mu zovuta zonse mothandizidwa ndi requiem kwa moyo zidzakhala zosavuta.
Kodi mungakonze bwanji mwambo wamaliro m'matchalitchi?
Ngati mukufuna kuitanitsa maliro, muyenera kuyamba kupita ku tchalitchi. Kumeneko ndikofunikira kuvomereza ndi wansembe za requiem, zomwe zikhoza kuwerengedwa mu mpingo komanso kumanda. Ngakhale m'kachisi, muyenera kulemba kalata ndi mayina a anthu omwe akufuna kutchula pa nthawiyi. Akufunikanso kudziwa zomwe zingabweretse mpingo ku requiem. Kupita ku tchalitchi kukakonzekera utumiki, muyenera kutenga nawo zinthu zina zomwe zatsala patebulo la panihid. Iwo ndi mtundu wachikondi woperekedwa mwa kulemekeza womwalirayo. M'dengu la requiem mukhoza kuika: Zakudya zosiyanasiyana zamabotolo, tirigu, zipatso, ndiwo zamasamba, vinyo, mazira, batala, shuga ndi maswiti. Zogulitsa zoletsedwa zikuphatikizapo sausages osiyanasiyana, nyama ndi zakudya zowonongeka.