Kodi n'zotheka kutenga mayi woyembekezera mu tchalitchi?

Sikuti nthawi zonse mimba imakonzedwa, choncho pa nthawi yachisokonezo, makolo akhoza kungokhala pamodzi, kukonzekera kukwatiwa. Palinso milandu pamene mwamuna ndi mkazi adalembetsa kale mgwirizano wawo ndipo amapita posakhalitsa kupembedzera mgwirizano wawo mu mpingo, pokhala okhulupilira, koma analibe nthawi asanaphunzire za mikwingwirima yamtengo wapatali. Choncho, funso loti ngati n'zotheka kukwatiwa ndi amayi oyembekezera mu tchalitchi chimabwera patsogolo. Anthu omwe sadziwa bwino nkhaniyi nthawi zambiri amanena kuti izi sizilandiridwa. Tiyeni tione momwe atumiki a mpingo enieni amachitira funso limeneli.

Ndiyenera kudziwa chiyani za ukwati pa nthawi ya mimba?

Ngati mukuyembekezera mwanayo, koma panthawi imodzimodziyo mukufuna kukhala ndi madalitso a Mulungu pa izo, mwinamwake mudzapita kukachisi kuti mukakuuzeni ngati mungakwatire mkazi wokwatira. Mpingo umasamalira nkhaniyi molekerera ndipo sakhulupirira kuti kuchita mwambo muzochitika ndi tchimo. Kuphwanya malamulo a Mulungu ndiko kubadwa kwa mwana kunja kwaukwati, i E. moyo wa chigololo. Choncho, ngati mukufuna kuyankha funso ngati n'zotheka kukwatira pa nthawi ya mimba, chabwino, komabe choyamba ndiyenera kulowa m'banja lalamulo, lomwe lalembedwera ku ofesi yolembera.

Mayi ndi abambo amtsogolo ayenera kudziwa za ukwati mu malo "okondweretsa" mfundo izi:

1. Wansembe aliyense atha kuchotsa kukayikira kwanu kuti ngati mkwatibwi atha kukwatiwa. Pambuyo pake, mwana amaonedwa kuti ndi mphatso yochokera kwa Ambuye, yemwe adadalitsa mkaziyo. Choncho, palibe chilango chochokera Kumwamba, ngati okwatirana akufuna kutsogolera moyo wolungama ndikugwirizana ndi mwanayo ku chikhulupiriro cha Orthodox, sichidzatsatira.
2. Mwambo waukwati ndiutali ndithu ndipo umatenga ola limodzi. Nthawi yonseyi mkwati ndi mkwatibwi ayenera kuyima. Mayi wodwala nthawi zambiri amamva wofooka, ndipo mutu wake ukhoza kukhala wamisazi. Choncho, m'pofunika kudziwitsa pasadakhale za mkhalidwe wa mayi wamtsogolo kwa anyamata a tchalitchi omwe adzakonzekeretse benchi pasadakhale kuti athe kukhala pansi ndikupumula.
3. Kutalika kwa mkanjo wa ukwati ayenera kukhala pansi pa bondo. Ndifunikanso kuti chimakwirira chifuwa ndi mapewa. Mayi angathe ndipo ayenera kukwatirana ndi zovala zosayirira zomwe sizimapweteka mimba ndi chifuwa, choncho zidzakhala zosavuta kupirira nthawi yayitali m'chipinda chamkati. Pa mwamboyo musankhe nsapato ndi mphuno yotsekedwa, zomwe zingakhale zabwino kwambiri.