Pafupifupi munthu aliyense mozindikira kapena ayi, amayesetsa kuti boma liwathandize kukhala osangalala. Chimwemwe chimadziwonetsera mwa aliyense mu chinachake, payekha. Zingakhale bwino mu banja, chuma kapena kudzidzimitsa. Mukhoza kuphunzira kukhala osangalala, chinthu chofunika kwambiri. Inde, njira yopita ku chimwemwe si nthawizonse yosavuta. Kuvuta kwake kumakhala mukutanthauza kuti muyenera kudziwa zinthu zina zomwe mungathe kukhala osangalala.
Kodi mungaphunzire bwanji kukhala wachimwemwe?
Chimodzi mwa malingaliro olakwika kwambiri okhudzana ndi chimwemwe, sikuti aliyense ali woyenerera, ndipo chimwemwe chiri chovuta kukwaniritsa. Pazifukwa zina, chidziwitso chaumunthu chimakonzedwa kotero kuti munthu mosadziwa amalingalira zopinga. Munthu amakana kukhulupirira kuti ali ndi chimwemwe chenicheni, ngati zimangopita kwa iye mosavuta. Ganizirani malamulo omwe angakuthandizeni kumvetsa momwe mungaphunzire kukhala mosangalala.
- Parameters za chimwemwe. Musaiwale kuti kukhala wokondwa ndi cholinga. Muyenera kuchiwona kuti mumvetse zomwe ziyenera kuchitika. Sankhani chomwe chimwemwe chimatanthauza kwa inu. Kapena ndi pamene mukukondedwa, kapena pamene mukudziimira nokha. Zomwe zimapangitsa kuti mukhale osangalala, zolinga zowonjezereka, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti mungathe kugonjetsa mosavuta zopinga zomwe zingakwaniritsidwe.
- Chimene chimakupangitsani chimwemwe ndi chisangalalo. Chimwemwe chimadalira kuti ndi angati omwe akujambula zithunzi, ndikuzidzaza ndi zinthu zomwe zimakupangitsani kuti mukhale osangalala, zimakupatsani chisangalalo. Lembani mndandanda wa zomwe zimakupangitsani inu pang'ono, koma okondwa. Phatikizani mmenemo zinthu zomwe zimathandiza kusintha moyo wanu kukhala nthano, kuwonjezera mitundu yowala. Nthawi zonse yesani mndandandawu. Nthawi iliyonse yonjezerani zifukwa zatsopano zosangalalira ndi chimwemwe.
- Khalani panopa. Lekani kukumbukira zinthu kapena ndondomeko zamtsogolo. Kumbukirani zomwe muli nazo tsopano, nthawi zamakono. Pakali pano ndi mphamvu ndi mphamvu zanu. Patsikuli, yesetsani kusunga maganizo anu.
Taya mawu okhudza zakale. Khalani panopa. - Dzikondeni nokha kuti ndinu ndani. Dzivomerezeni nokha ngati munthu. Zindikirani kuti vutoli lingayang'ane ngati ulemu wanu. Lembani pamapepala ulemu wanu wonse, zinthu zabwino, kuyang'anitsitsa umunthu wanu ndipo mudzapeza zinthu zambiri zosawerengeka.
N'zosavuta kukhala wosangalala. Dziwani kuti pambali pa inu, palibe amene angabweretse chimwemwe pamoyo wanu. Pangani moyo wanu wachimwemwe lero.