Anthu amapita ku tchalitchi kukapeza chithandizo ndi uphungu. Maloto omwe wansembe adachita nawo amawoneka ngati osamvetsetseka, ambiri amakhulupirira kuti awa ndiwo mauthenga a Mphamvu Zapamwamba. Kuti mufotokoze molondola zomwe mwawona, m'pofunika kuganizira zina za maloto.
Kodi maloto a bambo ndi otani?
Maloto omwe munawona wansembe, ndi chifukwa choganiza, ndiko, nthawi yoti muganizire zinthu zonse zomwe mwakonza, mwinamwake mumakhumudwa kwinakwake? Ngati muwona kuti wansembe ndi wosakwiya ndi wokhumudwitsidwa ndi chinachake - ichi ndi chizindikiro chakuti ngozi yaikulu ndi mavuto ali patsogolo panu. Kukambirana m'kachisi kukuwonetsa kuyamba kwa nthawi kuti kusintha kusinthidwe. Ngati mumalota za tchalitchi ndi wansembe yemwe amachititsa msonkhano, ndiye kuti posachedwa muyenera kukhala omvera, chifukwa chiopsezo cha matenda ndi maganizo owonjezereka akuwonjezeka. Wansembe wosauka ndi chenjezo kuti wina akhoza kukukhudzani.
Anthu ena amakondwera ndi zomwe atate, omwe amadzinenera ndi kudalitsa, maloto okhudza. Pachifukwa ichi, malotowa amachititsa chitukuko cha zinthu zovuta, chidzangobwera mwa iwo ndi kutenga nawo mbali yodziwika bwino. Utumiki mu tchalitchi umapita m'chinenero chosamvetsetseka kwa inu - chizindikiro chochita cholakwika chomwe chikhudza moyo. Ngati mumalota kuti munayamba kukondana ndi wansembe, ndiye kuti posachedwa mudzapusitsidwa ndi mnzanu.
Nchifukwa chiyani mukulota madalitso a abambo?
Maloto oterewa akuwonetseratu kuti posachedwapa mutha kukhala ndi munthu amene angakuthandizeni pa zovuta. Izi zikutanthauzanso kuti posachedwa mudzayambiranso maubwenzi ndi anthu omwe akhala akukangana kwa nthawi yaitali. Maloto omwe mumalandira madalitso akulonjeza kusintha kwakukulu kwa ndalama zanu, ndipo mudzakhalanso ndi mwayi wokumana ndi mnzanuyo.