Kodi anzake akusukulu amalota chiyani?

Munthu aliyense ali ndi mabwenzi ake ndi anzake a m'kalasi. Kwa ena, awa ndiwo mabwenzi abwino, koma kwa ena, adani. Kulongosola kotereku kumalota maloto, kumene kunali kotheka kuwona anzanu akusukulu. Kotero kuti, kuti mudziwe zambiri za tsogolo, nkoyenera kulingalira zina za chiwembu, mwachitsanzo, kodi anzanu akusukulu ndi inu, ndi ena, amachita chiyani mu loto

Kodi anzake akusukulu amalota chiyani?

M'modzi mwa mabuku a maloto, chizindikiro ichi ndi chenjezo ponena za kukhalapo kwa mavuto m'moyo, zomwe mudzatha kuthetsa pokha pothandizidwa ndi anzanu. Maloto enawo akulosera mwayi wakuwonetsera kulenga kwake. Maloto kutanthauzira, omwe kale anali anzanu akusukulu omwe sakuzindikira kuti mukulota, monga chisonyezero chakuti mumapereka nthawi yokwanira yogwira ntchito, ndikuiwala za anthu oyandikana nawo. Ngati oyandikana nawo pafupi pa desiki anali okondwa, ndiye posachedwa muyenera kudera nkhawa za mbiri yanu, yomwe idzavutika chifukwa cha machimo akale.

Tidzazindikira tanthauzo lake ngati mumpsompsonana ndi mnzanu wa m'kalasi. Chiwembuchi chimasonyeza kuti pa gawo ili la moyo mumafunikira chithandizo cha mabwenzi apamtima ndi achibale. Komabe zikhoza kukhala zovuta kukangana ndi woyandikana naye wakale pa desiki m'moyo weniweni. M'modzi mwa mabuku a maloto, anzanu a m'kalasi ndi chizindikiro choti ndi anzanu enieni okha omwe ali ndi inu. Ubale wapamtima ndi mnzanu wa m'kalasi umasonyeza kusakhutira mu moyo wamba. Kwa mtsikana, maloto okhudza anzanu akusukulu akulosera msonkhano ndi munthu amene adzasintha moyo wake wonse.

Pezani chomwe chimatanthauza pamene wophunzira wamwamuna wakufa akulota. Pachifukwa ichi, malotowo angathe kufotokozedwa ngati kuopa imfa ya munthu. Icho chingakhalenso chizindikiro cha chikhumbo chokwaniritsa malonjezo omwe anapangidwa kale. Palinso Nkhani yomwe imanena kuti maloto a wokondedwa mnzanuyo amatanthauza kuti mumathera nthawi yambiri mukuukitsa zinthu zosafunika, osasowa mwayi wabwino wa moyo wabwino.

Kodi msonkhano wa anzanu akusukulu ndi uti?

Ngati munapita kumsonkhano wa omaliza maphunziro - ndi chizindikiro chakuti simukukondwera ndi njira yolankhulirana yamakono ndipo chisangalalo chidzabwerera kumbuyo. Kungakhalenso chizindikiro kuti mwamsanga mudzamva zotsatira za zochita zomwe zachitika kale. Maloto omwe mumakhala nawo musanayambe kusonkhana ndi anzanu a kusukulu, amasonyeza kusakhutira moyo wanu. Ngati mupita kuchithunzichi mumtima wabwino, ndiye kuti mumanyada ndi zomwe mumachita.