Pafupifupi usiku uliwonse munthu amalota. Iwo akhoza kukhala osiyana kwambiri, nthawizina osati kwenikweni. Ndi kutanthauzira molondola kwa zithunzi zomwe mukuziwona, mukhoza kuphunzira zambiri za tsogolo ndi zamakono, zomwe zingakuthandizeni kukonzekera zochitika zina.
Kodi dziwe limalota chiyani?
Mu maloto, inu mumadzaza dziwe, ndiye mu moyo weniweni inu mudzatha kupanga ndalama kwenikweni kuchokera pachabe. Ngati mutathira madzi, ndiye kuti mwachangu mwayi wamtsogolo udzayenda kuchokera kwa inu. Mu maloto mumadumphira kuchokera kumtunda - ichi ndi chisonyezo cha icho m'moyo weniweni muyenera kupanga chisankho chofunika chomwe chidzakhudze moyo wonse. Mukakumana ndi madzi, mumamva kupweteka, ndiye simukufuna kutenga udindo, chifukwa simudziwa kuti muli ndi luso. Mwa njira, ichi ndi chifukwa cha mavuto ambiri omwe alipo.
Ngati mumalota padziwe ndi madzi oyera, ndi chizindikiro chakuti posachedwapa chikhumbo chanu chidzakwaniritsidwa. Kumira m'madzi - kenako mutakwaniritsa zofunikira muyenera kuyembekezera mavuto. Madzi ozizira ndi chizindikiro cha mavuto aakulu omwe muyenera kupirira popanda thandizo la wina aliyense. Pamene mumalota padziwe ndi madzi onyansa, mumoyo wamba mungadwale kwambiri.
Nchifukwa chiyani mukuganiza kuti ndikusambira mu dziwe?
Ngati mtsikana wamng'ono akuwona malotowo, mwachiwonekere, posachedwa khalidwe lake ndi kudzidalira kwake zidzayamikiridwa ndikuyamikiridwa ndi ena. Izi zidzakuthandizani kuti mukhale ndi malo apamwamba pakati pa anthu ndikupanga anzanu atsopano. Maloto oterewa angapereke mphamvu kwa munthu wina, koma zovuta zidzatha pambuyo pa chibwenzi. Maloto omwe mukuyandama nawo akufanizira phindu ladzidzidzi.
Kutanthauzira kwina kwa malotowo - posachedwapa mudzakumana ndi wachikulire, yemwe kale adakukondani. Mumakhala osangalala posambira,
Mu maloto, mukuwona momwe wachibale wanu kapena anzanu akusambira padziwe, zenizeni padzakhala zochitika zomwe zidzasintha moyo ndi khalidwe. Kusintha kudzakhudza mbali zonse.
N'chifukwa chiyani dziwe lopanda kanthu likulota?
Maloto amasonyeza kukhala wopanda pake m'moyo, zomwe zingayambidwe chifukwa chakumangopita kumene ndi wokondedwa. Tikulimbikitsidwa kuti tipume, tipeze zokondweretsa zomwe zingabweretse chisangalalo.