Ziribe kanthu kuti ana ang'onoang'ono angawoneke ngati ang'ono bwanji, onse ali ndi khalidwe lawo lapadera, zomwe zimakhala zoonekeratu m'zaka zoyambirira za moyo wa mwanayo.
Nchiyani chimatsimikizira chikhalidwe cha mwanayo?
Mapangidwe a chikhalidwe cha mwanayo samachitika usiku womwewo. Zimakhudzidwa ndi zinthu zotsatirazi:
- umoyo;
- kulera;
- khalidwe la makolo;
- zachilengedwe (sukulu ya sukulu, sukulu).
Kumayambiriro kwa moyo wa zinyenyeswazi, pali chitsanzo chowoneka chotsanzira - makolo ake okondedwa. Iye amawasindikiza mozindikira ndi mosadziŵa khalidwe lawo, lomwe ndilo lokha lokha. Pambuyo pake, pamene akulankhulana, mwanayo amadabwa kuzindikira kuti pali anthu ena ambiri padziko lapansi, akulu ndi ang'onoang'ono omwe angathe kuchita zinthu mosiyana, ndipo amachokera kuyankhulana ndi wina aliyense.
Mphamvu ya mwana wanu
Mwana, ngakhale wazaka chimodzi, ali kale munthu. Ndipo iye ali ndi mtundu wina wa chikhalidwe, chomwe chimatsimikiziridwa ndi makhalidwe ake omwe a khalidwe ndi khalidwe, komanso chibadwa cha mwanayo. Monga mukudziwira, pali mitundu iwiri yofunikira ya umunthu: magazi, choleric, phlegmatic ndi melancholic. Tiyeni tiwone zomwe iwo ali ndi momwe angadziwire khalidwe la mwanayo.
- Magazini amasonyeza khalidwe lotseguka, lachifundo, luso losavuta kulephera, "chiyero" cha khalidwe, mphamvu. Kawirikawiri, awa ndi atsogoleri a gulu la ana, kuchokera kwa iwo atsogoleri abwino akukula.
- Mwana wa kolera amakhala wamtima, wovuta, ngakhale wamwano. Amatha kukwatulidwa mwachidwi ndi mtundu wina wa bizinesi, koma ngati chinachake sichimuthandiza, akhoza kukhala wachiwawa. Choleric ndizowonjezereka nthawi zambiri.
- Mtundu wa makhalidwe abwino umatsimikiziridwa ndi makhalidwe monga kuchepa, kupsinjika maganizo, chipiriro. Mafupa ambiri amakhala aulesi, nkhope yake ndi yopanda pake, amayamba kugwiritsa ntchito zonse zatsopano kwa nthawi yaitali.
- Mwana yemwe ali ndi chipsinjo chotentha kwambiri amakhala wamanyazi, wopweteka, wosatetezeka. Zimakhala zovuta kwambiri kuposa zina kuti zigwirizane ndi zikhalidwe zatsopano, kuphatikizapo palimodzi. Koma panthawi imodzimodziyo amangofuna kusokoneza zochitika pamaganizo, nthawi ndi ndondomeko. Ana oterewa akhoza kupambana bwino muzinthu zowonjezera: nyimbo, kujambula, kujambulidwa, ndakatulo.
Mitundu inayi ya chikhalidwe sichidziwonekera kawirikawiri mu mawonekedwe oyera. Nthawi zambiri chikhalidwe cha mwanayo chimasakanikirana. Pa nthawi yomweyi, zinthu zomwe zimapezeka mu "zotsatizana" zimagwirizana: choleric / sanguine, phlegmatic / melancholic.
Chikhalidwe cha mwanayo ndi malo a innate, ndi zovuta kwambiri, zosatheka kusintha. Ndipo makolo amafunika kupirira, osayimitsa, kuyesa kusintha "kwa iwo okha," koma kongoletsa modekha khalidwe lake.
Maphunziro a chikhalidwe cha mwanayo m'banja
Mitundu yabwino ya "zabwino" kapena "zoipa" siilipo, ndipo mu chikhalidwe cha mwana aliyense pali zinthu zabwino komanso zoipa.
Makhalidwe monga kukhala woona mtima, khalidwe labwino, kulekerera, chidwi kwa ena chiyenera kuphunzitsidwa kwa mwanayo pa maphunziro. Zoonadi, izi zimadalira mtundu wa makolo okha.
Makhalidwe abwino a mwana wamwamuna amayamba makamaka kuyankhulana ndi anzawo.
Zovuta, malingaliro a makolowo, khalidwe la mwanayo lingatanthauzenso kukhumudwa kwambiri, kupsa mtima msanga, komanso, kukhumudwa, kusinthasintha kawirikawiri, chizolowezi chodandaula. Ndipo ngakhale mwanayo "sangathe kukonzanso," zikhalidwe izi za chilengedwe zingayesedwebe kusintha. Izi ziyenera kuchitidwa pang'onopang'ono, moleza mtima, kusonyeza kukhudzidwa. Musamukankhire mwanayo, musayese "kuswa", musagwiritse ntchito molakwa zoletsedwa ndi chilango.
Mwana aliyense akhoza kupeza njira yakeyo, podziwa chikhalidwe chake. Ndipo ngakhale mwana wanu ali "ovuta", kumbukirani kuti akadakondedwa kwambiri!