Malingana ndi zizindikiro pa Chivundikiro cha Akazi, pa Oktoba 14, ndikofunika kumangokhalira kusewera, kukhumudwa ndi kukhumudwa lero lino sikuloledwa. Ngati mtsikanayo adzasangalala ndipo adzasangalala ndi nthawi yonseyi, adzatha kukopa chimwemwe ndi chikondi m'moyo wake. Apo ayi, sangathe kuyembekezera kuti chuma ndi ulemelero zidzalamulira mnyumba mwake.
Zizindikiro pa Chitetezo cha Virgin Woyera kwa Akazi
Ngati mtsikana akulota banja losangalala ndi chitukuko, ndiye kuti ayenera kuchita miyambo yotsatirayi:
- Dzukani molawirira, sambani nkhope yanu ndi madzi a masika ndipo mutangotha kadzutsa muziyamba kuphika maswiti. Malinga ndi chizindikiro kwa akazi pa Pokrov, kuphika kuyenera kuperekedwa kwa anthu okondweretsa, mwachitsanzo, abwenzi anu kapena wokondedwa wanu. Pambuyo pa mwambo wotero, mungathe kuyembekezera kuti posachedwa mudzakumana ndi chikondi ndikukwatirana.
- Mkazi wosakwatiwa ayenera kumangirira chophimba, izi zimathandizanso kukopa mkwati. Ngati mkazi watha kale kale, ndi bwino kumangiriza mpango, kotero kuti muthandize kulamulira panyumba pathupi ndi chitukuko, mutatha mwambo wotere, mwamuna adzakukondani kwambiri.
- Chizindikiro chabwino potetezedwa kwa Maria Namwali Wodalitsika chifukwa cha mkazi adzakhala, ngati apatsidwa maluwa atsopano, chochitikacho chikutanthauza kuti kukongola kwake kudzangokhala maluwa. Zikakhala kuti palibe amene wapereka maluwa, mukhoza kugula nokha, zidzakuthandizani kukopa thanzi ndi ubwino.
- Njira yabwino kwambiri yothetsera chisangalalo ndi kuchereza osachepera banja limodzi, yesetsani kusankha munthu amene amakhala mwamtendere ndi phindu. Mtsikana wosakwatiwa adzakopa mkwati wabwino kwambiri, ndipo mkazi yemwe ali wokwatirana adzatha kulimbitsa chikondi pakati pa iyeyo ndi mwamuna wake.
- Komanso, malinga ndi zizindikiro, phwando la chitetezo cha Maria Virgin Virgin kwa amayi ndi mwayi wapadera wokhazikitsa ubale ndi achibale, kuti apangitse iwo kukhala amphamvu ndi ochezeka. Patsiku lino muyenera kuwayitana, kapena kukacheza nokha, kupempha chikhululuko pa zokhumudwitsa zonse ndikuchotsa maganizo oipa, ngati alipo. Chitani achibale anu ndi chinachake chokoma, yesetsani kukhala madzulo kuti mukambirane mwamtendere, pochita izi, mukhoza kutsimikiza kuti ubale wanu udzakhala wabwino.
- Musaiwale kupita ku tchalitchi ndikupereka mphatso zachifundo. Izi zidzakuthandizani kuyandikira nthawi yakukwaniritsidwa kwa chikhumbo chanu chokhumba, kumbukirani kuti mungathe ndipo mukusowa zomwe sizidzabweretsa chisoni kwa anthu ena, mwinamwake maloto sadzakhala enieni.
- Chitani mwambo wa Chitetezo kwa amayi osakwatira, kumathandiza kupeza mkwati. Patsiku la chikondwerero, tenga zovala zanu za tsiku ndi tsiku ndi zomangira pazitsulo, chotsani mkombero kapena chinthu china chovala pazovala mpaka madzulo ndikumasula iwo atatha mdima. Kotero inu muchotse vuto la kusungulumwa, kuwonjezera kukongola kwanu kwa amuna, kuonjezera mwayi wokomana ndi chikondi posachedwapa.
- Dyetsani mbalame ndi zinyenyeswazi kapena chimanga, zimathandiza kuti anthu azikhala bwino kunyumba. Ndizowona ngati pali mwayi wopatsa mbalame zinthu zambiri zokaphika, choncho mwambowo udzakhala wogwira mtima kwambiri. Mwa njira, yang'anani khalidwe la mbalame, ngati sakuwopa kukuyandikirani mwakuya, kapena kukuwombera zinyama ndi manja anu, ndiye posachedwapa chikhumbo chanu chokhumba chidzakwaniritsidwa. Chabwino, ngati mbalame zikuwopa kapena sizikufuna kudya, muyenera kuyang'ana khalidwe lanu, mwinamwake muyenera kusintha ndi kupanga anthu abwino, ngati simutalika kwambiri kuti mupeze chimwemwe.