Pa July 30 , dziko limakondwerera Tsiku la Ubale Wadziko Lonse, lomwe nthawi zambiri limasokonezedwa ndi International Friends Day. Poyamba, izi ndizofanana ndi maholide omwewo, koma izi siziri zoona. Kwa ambiri a ife, ubwenzi ndi chikhalidwe cha makhalidwe abwino, chiyanjano cha umunthu, chomwe ndi chozizwitsa, chifukwa monga lamulo tilibe abwenzi enieni.
Mbiri ya tchuthi
Chigamulo chotsatira Tsiku la Ubale wa Padziko Lonse pa June 9 chinakhazikitsidwa mu 2011 ku UN General Assembly. Cholinga chake ndicho kulimbikitsana pakati pa mayiko onse padziko lapansi. Lero, nkhaniyi ndi yofulumira kwambiri kuposa kale lonse pazochitika zankhondo ndi nkhondo zazikulu m'mayiko ena, pamene dziko lidzala ndi chiwawa ndi kusakhulupirira. Kuphatikizanso, ngakhale anthu okhala mu dziko lirilonse, mzinda, kapena nyumba nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi mgwirizano wotsutsana.
Cholinga chokhazikitsa tsikuli ndi kukhazikitsa maziko olimba a mtendere pa dziko lapansi, mosasamala mtundu, chikhalidwe, dziko, miyambo komanso kusiyana kwa anthu okhala padziko lapansili.
Imodzi mwa ntchito zazikulu zomwe zaikidwa pa maziko a tchuthi ndi zomwe achinyamata akuchita, mwina mtsogolomu, atsogoleli omwe atsogolere gulu lonse ladziko ndi cholinga cholimbikitsa ulemu ndi mgwirizano ndi zikhalidwe zosiyanasiyana.
Kodi ubwenzi ndi chiyani?
Timaphunzitsidwa kuyambira ali mwana kuti tikhale abwenzi ndi onse, koma kufotokoza lingaliro ili, kumupatsa kutanthauzira kosamveka ndi kosatheka. Akatswiri afilosofi, akatswiri a maganizo ndi olemba amayesa kuchita izi. Za ubale wolembedwa mabuku ndi nyimbo zambiri, anawombera mazana mafilimu. Nthawi zonse, ubwenzi unkaonedwa kuti ndi wamtengo wapatali kuposa chikondi.
Ndizosangalatsa, koma ambiri amakhulupirira kuti lero ubwenzi sizowona kwenikweni. Wina amakhulupirira kuti kulibe, ndipo wina ndi wotsimikiza kuti izi ndizopangidwa.
Wachifilosofi wa ku Germany, Hegel, ankakhulupirira kuti ubwenzi ndi wotheka pokhapokha pa ubwana ndi unyamata. Panthawi imeneyi ndikofunika kuti munthu akhale mdziko - ili ndi gawo loyamba la chitukuko chaumwini. Munthu wamkulu, monga lamulo, alibe nthawi ya abwenzi, m'malo awo ndi banja komanso ntchito.
Kodi amakondwerera bwanji tchuthi?
UN anaganiza kuti funso la momwe Tsiku Lachiwiri la Ubale lidzakondwerera lidzasankhidwa payekha mu dziko lirilonse, poganizira chikhalidwe ndi miyambo. Choncho, zochitika m'mayiko osiyanasiyana zikhoza kusiyana, koma cholinga chimakhala chofanana.
Nthaŵi zambiri pa International Day of Friendship, pali zochitika zosiyanasiyana zomwe zimalimbikitsa ubale ndi mgwirizano pakati pa oimira miyambo ndi mitundu yosiyanasiyana. Patsiku lino, n'zotheka kupita ku seminala ndi maphunziro, kukayendera msasa, kumene lingaliro libadwire kuti dziko lapansi ndilosiyana kwambiri ndipo izi ndizopadera komanso zofunikira.
Ubale wa azimayi ndi amuna
Kodi abwenzi abwino kwambiri ndi abambo ati? Inde, ndithudi, tonse tinamva za kukhulupirika ndi kukhulupirika kwa ubale wamwamuna, komanso komanso kuti "chibwenzi chaukazi" sichipezekapo. Zitsanzo za ubwenzi wabwino pakati pa amuna ndizokwanira. Koma apa pali zitsanzo za ubale pakati pa oimira akazi ndi zocheperapo. Izi zingatheke bwanji? Akatswiri a zamaganizo amakhulupirira kuti ubale wa amai ndi mgwirizanowo. Ngakhale kuti zonse zimapindulitsa, ubwenzi udzakhalapo. Koma ngati zofuna za amayi zimadutsana - chirichonse: ubwenzi monga sizinayambepo! Ndipo, monga lamulo, anthu ndiwo chokhumudwitsa chachikulu.
Kodi mukugwirizana ndi maganizo a akatswiri a maganizo? Payekha, timakhulupirira mwamphamvu ubale weniweni ndi wopanda ubongo wa amuna ndi akazi!