Socrates ananenanso kuti "palibe matenda amthupi omwe amasiyana ndi moyo," ndiko kutanthauzira kuti ndizozoloŵera kwambiri m'makutu athu: "malingaliro abwino mu thupi labwino," komanso mosiyana. Komabe, pazifukwa zina zamankhwala zamakono ndi grin amakana mfundo zoterezi. Kodi Socrates anali wopusa? Kapena, mwinamwake, madotolo amakonowa ali odzikonda okha? Zirizonse zomwe zinali, ndipo pali choonadi chowona kuti matenda ndi psychology ali ndi mgwirizano, chifukwa aliyense wa ife anazindikira kuti kuwonjezereka kwa matenda kumapezeka nthawi yovuta ya maganizo - chifukwa cha nkhawa, chisangalalo, kutopa. Tiyeni tiyankhule za psychology ya matenda, ziribe kanthu momwe zikumvekera zopanda pake.
Zotsatira-zotsatira - zotsatira
Mukayamba kuchokera kumbali ina, kupeza chifukwa cha maganizo cha matenda, ndipo makamaka chochotsa, mukhoza kuthetseratu matendawa. Koma sizinthu zophweka. Kupeza vuto palokha sikovuta, koma kungatenge chaka kuti chikhazikitse.
Tsiku ndi tsiku, timayambitsa ubongo wathu mosaganizira, mantha, kukayikira. Zonsezi sizimasintha, koma zimasinthidwa ndi milu yambiri. Panthawi ina zimawoneka kuti moyo wambiri ndi madontho ochepa kwambiriwo ndizosatheka. Mwachitsanzo, tengani njira iliyonse yotupa, tiyeni tinene banal angina. Kodi mukuganiza kuti zizindikiro zonsezi chifukwa cha kudya kwambiri ayisikilimu, kuzizira, matenda osakanikirana m'mabasi? Ayi, chifukwa cha matendawa ndi psychology, makamaka mavuto anu maganizo. Kutuluka kwa zotupa za mtundu uliwonse kumathandizidwa ndi kukhumudwa ndi zochitika zowoneka, mkwiyo, mantha ndi mkwiyo, komanso chidziwitso chanu.
Kuchokera pa izi zikutsatila kuti poyamba pali lingaliro (lolakwika), limalimbikitsa chinthu cholakwika (mwachitsanzo, kupsinjika maganizo kwa ubongo), ndipo chifukwa chake, pali matenda.
Matenda achikazi
Pano, ngakhale kuti asamangoganizira zofuna zake, kugonana kwabwino konse kuposa kumverera bwino maganizo a matenda azimayi komanso kudziwa zomwe "zolakwika" malingaliro zimawatsogolera.
Zomwe zimayambitsa matenda azimayi zimachokera ku msinkhu - maphunziro olakwika a kugonana , zowawa zoyamba zogonana ndi amuna, kusakhulupirika kwa amuna ndi akazi, komanso chofunika kwambiri, kunyalanyaza akazi mwaokha. Zambiri za mavuto athu apamtima zimakhala chifukwa chosowa malingaliro a wina ndi mkazi, lingaliro lakuti kugonana ndi chinthu choipa komanso chodetsa.
Malo onse okondweretsa chitukuko ayenera kuzindikiridwa ndikudziwika kudzera mwa zokambirana, ndikuchotsedwa ndi kuthandizidwa ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo.