Psychological vampirism sizongopeka, komatu pazosavuta zonse ndi kubwereka kuchokera ku mabuku a esoteric. Koma kwenikweni, mungatchule bwanji anthu ena omwe, atatha kulankhulana nawo, akumva kupweteka ndi kutopa kotero kuti kumatenga nthawi yoposa tsiku kuti apeze? Momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito ma vampires oterewa ndi momwe mungachitire nawo m'nkhaniyi.
Zizindikiro za vampirism zamaganizo
Dokotala wodziwika-katswiri wamaganizo M.E. Litvak analemba bukhu lomwe liri ndi dzina lomwelo, momwe iye anafotokozera tanthauzo la mawu akuti "maganizo a vampirism" - ndiko kufufuza ndi kugwiritsidwa ntchito kwa anthu kuti ateteze ndi kudyetsa munda wawo wamphamvu. Mlembi amakhulupirira kuti pali mitundu yambiri yamaganizo aumaganizo, apa ndi awa:
- ndevu za buluu;
- umunthu wosathandiza;
- mayi wachikondi monga mtundu wa vampirism wamaganizo;
- mayi ozizira;
- chidakwa;
- odwala-ngati wodwala;
- Cinderella ndi mfumukazi pa peyala, ndi zina zotero.
Kuzindikira mwa anthu oyandikana nawo wokonda chidwi kuti awononge mphamvu za wina ndizosavuta: kudzitamandira pamaso pawo. Musangodzitamandira, koma pezani ubwino weniweni. Vampire sangaphonye mwayi umenewu ndipo mwamsanga mwadzidzidzi ndi kukhumudwitsa pa mawuwo, kuyesera kufotokoza zomwe apambana. Izi sizinatchulidwe mwanjira ina, koma m'banjamo ndizosiyana kwambiri ndi maganizo a vampirism, pamene wina wochokera panyumba nthawi zonse amazunza ena mwazinyozo, ziphuphu, komanso nthawi zambiri osati zochepa.
Kodi mungamenyane bwanji?
Kutengera kwa mkangano wa vampirism wamaganizo ndi kosavuta: pamene wotsutsana akukwiyitsa, kumakhala kovuta kwambiri mu squabble, kukhala wokonzeka komanso wokondwa kwambiri ndi vampire. Mmene mungagwirire ndi munthu wotero m'deralo? Njira yoyipa kwambiri ndiyo kuchepetsa kulankhulana ndi zero. Ngati kukhudzana sikungapeweke, mungagwiritse ntchito njira yotchedwa "psychological aikido." Chofunikira chake ndi kuvomereza kwathunthu ndi vampire ndipo nthawi zonse amati "inde" kwa iye, motero kumusokoneza.
Njira yodalirika komanso yovomerezeka - kukhala wodzidalira, osati kutsogoleredwa ndi mtundu wina wa vampire pamenepo ndi kukhala pamwamba pawo, kuchitira chifundo anthu osauka ngati n'kotheka. Kuwonjezeka kwodzidzimva kwa kudzidalira kwawo ndikugwira ntchito pa kukula kwawo kudzakhala chitsimikiziro kuti palibe vampire amene angayesetse ngakhale kufika kwa munthu woteroyo, pokhapokha atenge mphamvu kuchokera kwa iye.