Ntchito za mnyamata

Ndi ndani kwenikweni, achinyamata? Awa akukula ana. Kapena kani - kukhwima. Ndipo pokhala ndi unyamata, mavuto aakulu aunyamata akugwirizana. Mthupi, malingaliro, makhalidwe, chikhalidwe cha anthu, mwatsoka, sichimayendera bwino, ndipo chitukuko chosagwirizanachi chimayambitsa kutsutsana kwa maganizo, kotero kukhala ndi ana a zaka zapakati pa 11-17.

Chimachitika ndi chiani? Mwana wakula akukumva ndikuzindikira momwe thupi lake limasinthira komanso kufunika kwake komanso kuzindikira kwake. Iye amamva kuti mu mawonetseredwe awa akuyandikira akulu, ndipo akufuna kuti azigwirizana nawo mwamsanga momwe angathere. Koma chifukwa cha kusakhazikika kwa makhalidwe ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu, nthawi zina msinkhu sangathe kuzindikira kuti, popanda ufulu, ali ndi maudindo.

Pogwiritsa ntchito chikhumbo chokhumba cha achinyamata kuti ateteze ufulu wawo kulikonse ndi kulikonse, akatswiri ochokera m'madera oyenera (malamulo, a psychology, ndi ena otero) amapanga mabungwe onse: malo amtundu uliwonse othandizira amilandu. Ndipo izi sizowopsa konse, kupatula ngati akatswiri enieni akugwira ntchito kumeneko omwe akufuna kuthandiza kwenikweni. Popanda kutero, nthawi zina zimakhala zolakwika, monga, kutsutsana ndi aphunzitsi a sukulu "kupanga" ophunzira kuyeretsa m'kalasi.

Kodi mungalongosole bwanji udindo wa mwanayo?

Eya, ngati mwazindikira kuti mwana wanu amene akukula amadziwa bwino ufulu wake, ponyalanyaza ntchitoyi, ndi nthawi yomfotokozera ubale pakati pa ufulu ndi udindo wa mwanayo. Ngati mwambo, "agogo" amatanthawuza ngati mafanizo ndi mawu ("chikondi kukwera - chikondi ndi kugona kunyamula") musamathandizire, yesetsani kulankhula za ubale umenewu pa chitsanzo cha boma. Achinyamata ngati zowona komanso mfundo iliyonse "yodziwa". Fotokozerani "wopandukira" anu za mgwirizano (mgwirizano) wa ufulu ndi maudindo omwe akugwira ntchito mwadongosolo m'mayiko onse a demokalase - mukhoza kuwerengapo pa buku lililonse la malamulo. Fotokozani kuti munthu aliyense - osati wachinyamatayo, koma wamkulu - ali ndi ufulu, maudindo. Ndipo panjira, akulu amakhala ndi maudindo ambiri kuposa achinyamata.

Kuyambitsa zokambirana zoterezi, pewani zochitika zamakono. Ndiuzeni kuti inu nokha mukufuna kumvetsetsa, ndipo ufulu ndi udindo wanji nzika tsopano ali ndi zaka zatsopano. Fufuzani limodzi malemba ovomerezeka, mwachitsanzo, monga Declaration ndi UN Convention on the Rights of the Child (motsatira, 1959 ndi 1989). Mwa njira, chilembo choyamba chimanena kuti munthu aliyense amene sanakwanitse zaka 18 ali mwana. Choncho, monga momwe tikuonera, dziko lonse limakhulupirira kuti mwana akadali mwana. Kuwerenga mndandanda wa ufulu, musakhale waulesi kwambiri kuti muwongole aliyense, funsani mwanayo momwe akuganizira, ufulu wake ukulemekezedwa kwa iye kapena ayi. Mwinamwake, kale pa siteji iyi mudzaphunzirira zambiri.

Chabwino, tsopano mukhoza kupitirira ku funso la zomwe achinyamata ali nazo. Apa, ndithudi, ntchito yanu ndi yovuta kwambiri chifukwa chakuti palibe lamulo losiyana lalamulo lolengeza udindo wa ana ndi achinyamata. Komabe, ntchito zimenezi zimalembedwa m'malamulo osiyana, omwe angapezeke mosavuta pa intaneti. Nazi ena mwa iwo:

Ntchito za mwana wachinyamata m'banja

Nthano ndi zikalata zalamulo ndi zabwino, koma ndi nthawi yopitilira kuntchito zowonongeka ndikukamba za udindo wa mwana wachinyamata kunyumba. Sitipereke pano mndandanda wa ntchito zomwe zingatheke - izi sizikufunikira. Zidzakhala zokwanira kulembetsa malamulo ofunika omwe achinyamata ali nawo, ndipo palibe ambiri mwa iwo:

Kunyumba, banja - ili ndi malo oyamba kumene mwana amaphunzira kulankhulana ndi kuyanjana ndi anthu ena. Mmene mgwirizano wa pakati pa achinyamata ndi achibale wake udzakhazikitsire, njira yomwe adzamverera atazungulira ndi anthu makamaka amadalira moyo wake wachikulire. Ngati banja lilemekezana, limakwaniritsa udindo wawo, ngati mkhalidwe wothandizana nawo ndiwothandizana nawo, ndiye kuti mwanayo akukula m'banja lino, monga akuti, "sadzawonongeka" m'moyo.