Mtsikana akakumana pa moyo wake munthu yemwe amamuwona kuti ali ndi tsogolo lake , ali ndi mantha achilengedwe pomutayika, chifukwa zonse zimangoganizira za iye yekha. Kuopa kutayika kumangokhala chiwonetsero cha chikondi, chomwe chingakhale chifukwa cha maloto osiyana ndi chibwenzi chanu chokondedwa. Sikoyenera kuikapo tanthauzo lapadera ku maloto ngati amenewa, chifukwa ndi ntchito yodalirika, kumene mantha omwe munthu amawonekera akhoza kukwaniritsidwa. Koma komabe, tikulimbikitsanso kukumbukira malotowo mwatsatanetsatane ndikuyesa kufotokoza.
Nchifukwa chiyani mukulota kuti mulekanane ndi mnyamata?
Ngakhale kuti chithunzithunzi chachisokonezocho, chowonekera m'maloto, kutanthauzira kwambiri kwa malotowo kumachiza ichi ngati chizindikiro chabwino. Kawirikawiri, nthumwi za theka labwino la umunthu zimakhulupirira kuti maloto oterewa amachititsa kuti azigonana, koma si choncho. Izi zikuyimira kuti posachedwa mgwirizano udzapambana mu ubale wa banjali, ndipo kudalira ndi mgwirizano zidzakhala zazikulu kwambiri kuposa kale. Ngati muloto muli ndi chithunzi pamene mzimayiyo adayamba kutha kwa chiyanjano, zikhoza kutchulidwa ndi machenjezo, akunena kuti mwinamwake poti akunyengeni kapena maganizo ake tazizira. Pofuna kuthetsa vutoli, lankhulani ndi wokondedwa wanu za ubale wanu.
Ngati mumalota ndikunyengerera ndikupatukana, ndikuyeneranso kubwereza momwe mumamvera . Mwinamwake, posachedwa mtsikanayo akakumana ndi mnyamata yemwe angakhale wopambana kwambiri kuposa munthu yemwe ali pafupi naye panthawiyi. Ngati mtundu wamphamvu wa maganizo umakhala mu loto, mumapempha ndi kumupempha munthuyo kuti apitirize mgwirizano - izi zimasonyeza kumvetsetsa, kukhulupirika kwa anzanu. Zimatsimikiziranso kuwona mtima. Ngati mukufuna kulowerera ndi mnyamata, ndipo mukulira - misonzi iliyonse ikuyimira chisangalalo ndi zochitika zosangalatsa. Kusiyana kumene simukumverera kungathe kutanthauzidwa ngati kukhala moyo wosasangalatsa umene sudzakhala kusintha kwakukulu posachedwapa.
Kugawana ndi mnyamata mu loto ndi buku la loto
Maloto a mtundu uwu amatanthauzidwa mosiyana m'mabuku ena a loto, mwachitsanzo, ngati mumalota maloto omwe munathetsa ndi munthu wina wakale, ndipo pakali pano mutakhala pachiyanjano china, zikuwonetseratu kuti posachedwa mudzakumana ndi vuto la kusankha . Komanso maloto a mtundu uwu kwa mtsikana ndi chizindikiro cha kutopa kwake kuchokera pachibwenzi. Ngati kwenikweni akuyimira theka labwino la umunthu sanaganizire kuti apite ndi wokondedwa wake, koma m'maloto zinthu zikusiyana kwambiri, izi zikutanthauza kutsutsana. Ngati zochitika zomwe zinachitika mu malotozo zinali zakukhumudwitsa, mwachitsanzo, limodzi ndi nkhanza ndi nkhanza, kwenikweni kwenikweni mtsikana akudikirira mavuto, omwe angathe kuthana nawo mosavuta.
Kusiyana, komwe kunachitika mwamphamvu ndi mosayembekezereka, kukuyimira kupambana payekha. Ena amalota kutanthauzira kulira misonzi ndi zochitika mu loto monga kupambana pa ntchito, kukwezedwa pamsinkhu wa ntchito.
Akatswiri a zamaganizo amanena kuti nthawi zambiri maloto, kumene akugawikana, amayankhula za mantha omwe amapezeka kuti ataya wokondedwa wawo, mosasamala kanthu kuti munthuyo ndi bwenzi, achibale. Ndikofunika kumvetsetsa zomwe mumadzuka, ngati kuwuka kuli limodzi ndi mantha, muyenera kuchipeza, osati chifukwa. Kawirikawiri ndi maloto omwe amavumbulutsa zochitika zobisika komanso zobisika. Ngati ubalewu umatha mu chiyanjano, maloto a mtundu uwu ndi chodabwitsa chodziwika bwino, ndipo msungwana akungodzinyenga yekha, kuti ali mu chikondi.