Anthu ambiri omwe ali ndi tchizi wakuda akuphatikiza zochitika zosautsa. Mwinamwake, aliyense amadziwa chizindikiro, kuti ngati chinyama choterocho chadutsa pamsewu, ndiye kuti ndibwino kuyembekezera mavuto osiyanasiyana. Maloto okhudza kamba wakuda alibe tanthauzo lapadera, ndipo kutanthauzira kumadalira mwachindunji ndi zina. Mwachitsanzo, muyenera kuganizira zomwe anachita ndi nyamayo.
Nchifukwa chiyani mukulota khanda lakuda?
Monga zenizeni, chinyama chotero nthawi zambiri ndi chizindikiro choipa, chomwe chimalonjeza mavuto ambiri. Ngati mutayendetsa katsako, ndiye kuti mudzatha kuthana ndi vutoli ndikukwaniritsa zomwe mukufuna. Nyama yovulala kapena yakufa ndi chizindikiro chabwino chomwe chimalonjeza kugonjetsa adani ndi mpikisano. Mu bukhu lina la loto pali chidziwitso kuti khate lakufa imachenjeza za zovuta zomwe zingatheke kwa abwenzi.
Kutanthauzira kwa maloto, kumene khungu lakuda linalingalira, kumadalira momwe nyamayo imawonekera. Ngati kambayo inali yoyera komanso yokongola - ndi chizindikiro cha kukhalapo kwa mdani, yemwe ali pafupi kwambiri ndi inu. Amphaka wakuda ndi onyansa m'maloto amachititsa kuti abwenzi apamtima kapena achibale amve nkhani zoipa. Nyama yaikulu ikhoza kuchenjeza za kukhalapo kwa anthu olakalaka pakati pa anthu amphamvu. Panthawi imeneyi, muyenera kusamala kwambiri, monga mu bizinesi pamakhala mavuto aakulu.
Kwa mkazi wokwatiwa kuti awone khungu lakuda mu loto, ndiye mu moyo weniweni, iye akukumana ndi zokayikira za kusakhulupilira wokondedwa. Ngati chinyama chimazembera miyendo - ndi chenjezo lomwe liri pambali panu ndi munthu wosasamala. Kwa kugonana kwabwino, maloto omwe amanyamula chipewa chakuda m'manja mwake ndi chizindikiro cha zomwe anthu akuyandikira
Kuti mtsikana atenge khungu lakuda mu maloto ndi chitsulo, zikutanthawuza kuti m'moyo weniweni ndi bwino kuyang'ana kwambiri atsikanawo, popeza wina wa iwo akufuna kuwononga ubale wanu ndi wokondedwa wanu. Ngati zinyama zoterezi zimasaka mbewa, ndi chenjezo kuti mavuto ambiri ndi zovuta ziyenera kuyembekezera.
Nchifukwa chiyani amphaka akuda akulota?
Masomphenya ausiku, omwe nyamayo imachita mwaukali ndipo akufuna kukwatulidwa, ndizomwe mumayembekezera kuti mpikisano wa nthawi yayitali. Maloto ena angatanthauze kuti posachedwa munthu watsopano amadziwonetsera kuti ali ndi mphamvu kapena mukhoza kuperekedwa ndi mnzanu wakale.