Kawirikawiri, kudzuka, munthu amawakumbukira momveka bwino zonse za malotowo ndipo akhoza kuwamasulira mosavuta. Chofunika kwambiri pakufotokozera maloto ndi kugwirizana pakati pa zomwe analandira ndi zochitika zomwe zimachitika m'moyo weniweni.
Nchifukwa chiyani kati woyembekezera akulota?
Kawirikawiri maloto oterowo angawonedwe ngati chisonyezo chakuti adani adabwera kale ndi njira zingapo zopweteketsa. Maloto ena amatha kulongosola kuti makangano ndi mavuto osiyanasiyana amayamba. Ngati chinyama chinali chakuda - ichi ndi chizindikiro chakuti mmodzi wa achibale anu akudwala. Kwa msungwana wamng'ono, malotowo komwe kati yemwe ali ndi kachilombo amalingalira ndi chizindikiro chabwino chomwe chikulosera moyo wabwino waumwini. Mwinamwake iye aperekedwa dzanja ndi mtima. Kumva kulira kwa kamba wodwala kumatanthauza kuti wina akufuna kukuphatikizani mu zinthu zosautsa.
Ngati mukufuna kugwira khati lakutenga - ichi ndi chizoloŵezi chokumana ndi egoist yemwe ali ndi chidwi ndi maganizo ake okha. Ndinalota za khati ya pakati, imene inayamba kubereka, ndiye, posachedwa mudzalekana ndi munthu wina pafupi ndi inu. Amphaka angapo oyembekezera ali ndi manyazi. Maloto enanso angakhale chizindikiro cha kukhalapo mukulankhulana kwa anzanu osasamala omwe akufuna kukuvulazani. Mmodzi mwa mabuku a malotowo amanena kuti maloto okhudza mimba yodwala akhoza kuthandizidwa ngati ndondomeko kuti asamukire kuchitapo kanthu. Ino ndi nthawi yothetsera mavuto omwe akukumana nawo kuti mupititse patsogolo moyo wanu.
Kuti mulole kampata yokhala ndi mimba yomwe imafuna kapena yowonongeka kale, maloto anu sangakwaniritsidwe, posachedwa mavuto aakulu adzawonekera. Maloto enanso angathenso kuonedwa kuti ndi chizoloŵezi cha matendawa. Nkhumba yowononga ikuimira kuti adani anu samataika kukuyembekezerani kukuvulazani. Ngati mimba ili yoyera ndi chizindikiro choti adani adzakuchitirani zobisika.