Tsiku limenelo Mtetezi wa abambo amapezeka mobwerezabwereza pamaso pa mtsikana aliyense funsoli, zomwe angapereke kwa chibwenzi chake pa February 23, mphatso yanji yomwe sidzaponyedwe kumbali yakutali tsiku lotsatira? Poyamikira pa February 23, kumbukirani, ndipo mphatsoyo idabwera kwa munthuyo kuti ayambe kulawa, muyenera kupereka chinachake chomwe chitsimikizirika kuti chidzafike. Ayi, tsopano si za zodzoladzola za anthu, zonunkhira kapena raza, zokhudzana ndi zinthu zomwe mnyamatayo mwiniwake adagula pazifukwa zina koma sanathe, koma ndizofunikira komanso zofunika. Ndi mphatso ziti zomwe zingakhalepo? Inde, zosiyana kwambiri: kuchoka pa harni yamphepete kupita ku chibokosi chatsopano, mmalo mwa akale, ndi makalata okalamba. Koma za chirichonse mu dongosolo.
Mphatso yabwino kwambiri ndi yopangidwa ndi manja
Funsani mphatso yanji yomwe mnyamata angadzipange yekha pa February 23? Tiyeni tiganizire kuyamba ndi zomwe mumadziwa komanso zomwe chibwenzi chanu amakonda. Mwina iye amakondwera ndi pies anu ndi kabichi, ndi abwenzi ndikuganiza kuti ndinu osakwanira zophikira zochitika? Ndiye yankho limadzuka lokha - limapatsa mnyamata chakudya chamakono ndi pies omwe amamukonda ndi zakudya zina zingapo, zomwe amaphunzira kwambiri pa holide.
Ndipo mwadzidzidzi inu ndimasewera, ndi zithukuta, zofiira, zipewa - iyi ndiyo njira yanu yonse? Mwinamwake munthuyo adzakondwera kulandira chinthu china chopangidwa ndi manja anu? Tawonani kuti iye anali kuvala zinthu zoterozo, ndipo ndithudi, sankhani chitsanzo choyenerera pa kavalidwe kake. Inu simukufuna kuvala chovala chanu mwaulemu, kodi mnyamatayo anamverera mopweteka?
Chabwino, ngati simukuphika kapena kunyamula manja kungasiyitse mu mtima mwanu, musataye mtima, pali njira yanu. Mupatse munthu albamu ndi zithunzi zanu zokongola ndi zovomerezeka, muzisangalala nazo pamene simukukhala.
Tsogolo labwino likhoza kungokhala kukumbukira za iye
Mnyamata wanu wakhala akufuna kuyang'ana mzindawo kuchokera ku mbalame-maso, kapena akupenga za kukwera pamapepala ang'onoang'ono - mapu? Choncho mupatseni mwayi womva, monga magazi amachokera ku adrenaline.
Kodi simusangalala ndi masewera oopsa? Mutha kumvetsa, mnyamatayo akusowa chinachake chamoyo ndi chamoyo. Ndiye izo zikhoza kugwira ntchito ndi chinthu china, osagwira ntchito ndi zosangalatsa. Gwiritsani ntchito tsiku lino pabedi, kukwaniritsa zofuna za wokondedwa wanu. Khalani nsomba ya golide tsiku limodzi. Ndipo ndinu wabwino, ndipo mnyamatayo adzatha kuyamikira chilakolako chanu chomukondweretsa.
Ndipatseni zomwe mukufuna
Malangizo omwe amapezeka kwambiri pa chisankho ndi chisangalalo kwa mnyamata kuyambira pa February 23, ndikumvetsera zomwe amakonda. Wosodza-kuyendayenda, msaki - botolo, masewera a masewera - mpira, ndi wokonda okonda magalimoto okongola pamsewu - makina a kompyuta monga mawonekedwe a galimoto yaying'ono. Mphatso yabwino ikhoza kukhala matikiti ku kondomu ya gulu lanu lokonda kapena mpira (kutangoyamba kumene masewera mu UEFA Cup) kapena masewera a hockey. Inde, ngakhale kuyang'ana filimu yowulindira kwa nthawi yayitali, ikhoza kukhala mphatso yabwino kwa mnyamata, chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti iwe unalipo. Ndipo ngati mnyamata amakonda kuseketsa aliyense, ndiye nchiani chomwe chimakulepheretsani kuchita chimodzimodzi? Mumupatse chinthu chachilendo, ubwino wa masitolo a nthabwala tsopano sikwanira.
Ndatopa kwambiri ...
Mnyamata wanu ndi malonda, nthawi zonse mavuto ena, chabwino, osati mphindi kuti mupumule? Ndiye holide yake ndi nthawi yabwino yopuma. Mupatseni kalata yothandizira kutsekemera, mukamachezere ndi mankhwala osungirako mankhwala kapena sauna. Ndipo palimodzi mumathera nthawi, ndipo muwapatse okondedwa anu mphamvu ndi ntchito zatsopano, osati zokhazokha, zokwanira.
Zopatsa mphatso
Kodi mwakhala mukupita kukauza wokondedwa wanu za chikhumbo chowona chifaniziro chake? Chotsani tsopano, mothandizidwa ndi kulembetsa ku masewera olimbitsa thupi. Kapena mwinamwake iye ndi munthu wolenga kwa inu, mwachitsanzo, iye amakonda kukoka, koma kodi sichikhalabe pazochitika za tsiku ndi tsiku? Kenaka, kuonetsetsa kuti nyengo kunja kwawindo ndi yabwino, pitani paki ku malowa ndi ming'oma ndi pasel kuti mukhale ndi malo atsopano. Inde, ngakhale nyengo si yabwino, ndibwino, nchifukwa ninji mukufunikira malo osungirako, pamene pali chitsanzo chabwino kwambiri monga inu?
Ndipo chofunika kwambiri, khalani pafupi, ndiye ngakhale mphatso yamba yamba ingayambe kusewera ndi mitundu yatsopano.