Phwando la nkhuku ndi mawonekedwe otsiriza a mkwatibwi ngati msungwana, ndipo masewera osiyanasiyana ndi zosangalatsa ndi mbali yofunikira. Mwambo wokonzekera mayesero kwa mkwatibwi umabwereranso nthawi yayitali, ndiye iwo amayenera kuyesa kutsimikiza kwa zolinga zake, mphamvu ya chikondi kwa mwamuna wake wam'tsogolo ndi kukonzekera kwake kwa banja. Tsopano kumakangana ndi mkwatibwi wa mkwatibwi kumakhala kosangalatsa, kumapangitsa tsiku lino kukhala losangalatsa komanso losakumbukika. Tidzakambirana za ena mwa iwo.
Panjira yopita ku phwando la bachelorette
Mosasamala kanthu momwe mwasankha kugwiritsa ntchito phwando la bachelorette, mpikisano ikhoza kuyamba ngakhale panjira yopita ku gulu kapena cafe. Izi zidzakuthandizani kudutsa nthawi, pangani njira yoyenera ndikukondwera. Mkwatibwi ayenera kupeza anthu pamsewu omwe angafotokoze zochitika zina kuchokera ku moyo wake wakale. Mwachitsanzo, ngati adaphunzira ku yunivesite, ndiye kuti mupeze mtsikana wophunzira. Chizindikiro chosangalatsa chidzakumananso ndi mnyamata yemwe dzina lake ndi lofanana ndi la mwamuna wake wam'tsogolo. Pambuyo pake, mtsikanayo ayenera kulingalira za zomwe zimamuyembekezera m'moyo wake wam'tsogolo. Ngati mukufuna kukhala ndi ana mwamsanga - msonkhano wa mayi wamng'ono ndi mwana udzakhala pa nthawi yake, ndipo ngati poyamba ndikofunika kupeza ntchito, ndiye amayi omwe ali ndi malingaliro ofanana kapena a maluso a mkazi wamtsogolo. Mtsikana-anzanu pa mpikisano wotere ayenera kukonzekera mphatso zazing'ono kwa iwo omwe amakumana ndi mkwatibwi. Kawirikawiri anthu amakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi zosangalatsa zoterozo ndipo amafunitsitsa kukhala osangalala komanso banja lolimba.
Ngati mwamuna wanu ...
Mapikisano a masewera a phwando la bachelorette akhoza kuseketsa kwambiri. Zosangalatsazi nthawi zambiri zimayambitsa mvula chifukwa cha kusadziwiratu kwa zomwe mkwatibwi akuchita. Pambuyo pa chiyambi cha phwando la nkhuku, atsikanawo ayenera kukonzekera zidutswa zingapo za pepala, zomwe aliyense azilemba, zomwe mtsogolo mwamuna angazione kuti ndi zosasangalatsa, mwachitsanzo: "Kusasamala", "Nsanje," komanso "Kuika mphuno." Kenaka masambawa amapangidwa mu thumba kapena chipewa ndipo mkwatibwi amawatenga ndi kunena kuti: "Pambuyo paukwatiwo padzakhala kuti mwamuna wanga wam'tsogolo ndi wovuta, ndiye ine ..." ndiyeno akusonyeza zomwe adzachite nazo. Monga momwe mumadziwira nokha, zowonjezereka bwino zomwe mungachite ndi abwenzi, zomwe simukuziyembekezera zidzakhala mayankho a mkazi wam'tsogolo.
Mudzamuzindikira kuchokera kwa chikwi
Dziwani mmene mnzanu amadziwira bwino mwamuna wake wam'tsogolo. Kuti muchite izi, tengani chithunzi cha gawo lina la thupi lake pasadakhale: mwachitsanzo, chala pa mwendo kapena khutu. Konzani chithunzi chowonetsera malo omwewo ndi amuna ena, ndipo funsani mkwatibwi kuganiza: ali kuti wokondedwa wake?
Gawo lachiwiri la mpikisano limasonyeza momwe msungwana amadziwira zizoloŵezi ndi malingaliro a wosankhidwa wake. Mkwati akufunsidwa mafunso osiyana kwambiri: zomwe amakonda kudya, mbali yomwe amagona, zomwe amakonda komanso sakonda mkazi wake wam'tsogolo. Ndiye mafunso omwewo akufunsidwa mkwatibwi mofulumizitsa, ndipo mayankho ake amayang'anitsidwa motsutsana ndi mayankho operekedwa ndi mkwati. Zowonjezereka kwambiri, ndi bwino kuti amudziwe wokondedwa wake.
Ubwenzi wamphamvu
Amayi achibwenzi amalemba nkhani zabwino kwambiri zokhudzana ndi mkwatibwi ndi kumulola kuti aziwerenga, ndipo ayenera kukumbukira mfundo zosangalatsa ndikuyesera kuganiza omwe analemba za izi kapena zochitika pamoyo wawo.
Nyanga ya mkwatibwi
Atsikana amaganiza kuti mawuwa akukhudzana ndi moyo wa banja wokondwa, mwachitsanzo: " kudalira ", "kuthandizira muvuto," "kukhulupirika," ndipo mkwatibwi ayenera kumawaganizira powafunsa abwenzi ake mafunso kuti athe kungoyankha "inde" kapena "ayi." Mawu awa ndipo adzakhala okhutirana ndi mabanja omwe angokwatirana kumene, monga momwe akuganiza, akhoza kukhala pa positi, yomwe kumapeto kwa madzulo chibwenzicho chimaperekedwa kwa mkazi wamtsogolo komanso mphatso zazing'ono.