Kusalungama

N'chifukwa chiyani moyo ulibe chilungamo? Wina wa mapazi "kuchokera m'makutu," zovala zagolidi zachilengedwe, mwamuna wa oligarch ndi kugula ku Milan, ndi kwa wina fano la teddy bear, nyumba ku Khrushchev ndi kugula pamsika wapafupi - ndi kupanda chilungamo kosaoneka bwanji?

Kodi mungatani kuti musamachite zinthu zopanda chilungamo?

Pamene funso likubwera, momwe mungagwirire ntchito zopanda chilungamo, choyamba muyenera kudziwa ngati mukuchitiridwa nkhanza, kapena kodi zonse zomwe mwalakwitsa zinayambitsidwa?

Kuti muchite izi, yankhani nokha ku mafunso angapo omwe angakuthandizeni kumvetsa chifukwa chake moyo ulibe chilungamo kwa inu. Kodi ndi chifukwa chakuti mumakhala pakati pa anthu osauka omwe ali okonzeka kuchita chilichonse chifukwa cha phindu, kapena chifukwa chakuti iwowo adziyendetsa mumtsinje.

1. Kodi mukutanthauzira bwanji chilungamo ndi kupanda chilungamo? Dera loyambirira (wina anabadwira m'banja lolemera, ndipo wina anali ndi makolo omwe anali osawuka), kusiyana kwa masiku ano ndi momwe mumakhalira ndi mnzanu wa m'kalasi mwanu, mutuwo amakupsetsani mtima.
2. Ngati mukuganiza kuti moyo kuyambira pachiyambi wakhala akukuchitikirani molakwika ndipo chifukwa chake simungakwanitse kuchita zomwe abwenzi anu apindula, dzifunseni nokha, nchiyani chakulepheretsani kuchita izo? Kokha ngati kusowa ndalama kuti muyambe bwino - simungathe kupita ku yunivesites yapamwamba, palibe amene angakupatseni ngongole kuti mutsegule bizinesi yanu, ndi zina zotero.
3. Munayankha kuti ngati muli ndi ndalama, mukanapindula chilichonse (m'malo mwa ndalama mungalowe m'malo mwachinsinsi china - nthawi, kuyankhulana)? Ndipo popeza mudakanidwa ndi izi, ndiye simungathe kukwaniritsa chilichonse?
4. Kodi mukuwona kuti kukakamizidwa kwa pulogalamu ya moyo: kukwanitsa yunivesite - kupita kuntchito - kukwatira - kubereka ana?
5. Mukungochita izi kuti mudikire nthawi yabwino, ndikudzidalira nokha kuti moyo wanu udzasintha kwambiri?
6. Inu nonse mumayesetsa kuchita "5+", ndipo ngati muwona zolephera ngakhale pa ntchito yanu ya kunyumba, kodi izi zimakusokonezani?
7. Musadziike nokha zolinga zamtsogolo, mukusankha kukhala tsiku limodzi?

Ngati munayankha mafunso awiri kapena kuposera, ndiye kuti mutha kuyamikiridwa - moyo wanu ndi wabwino. Ndipo pakadali pano simungathe kuimbidwa mlandu, ulesi wanu ndi kusafuna kugwira ntchito mwakhama. Ndi nthawi yoti mudziwe kuti Wizard pa helikopita ya buluu siuluka, ndipo tikuyenera kuti tidzichepetse kuti tikwaniritse chinachake m'moyo uno. Lekani kuchita pa ulendo wautali woikidwa ndi wina, sankhani njira yanu. Kusiya zifukwa zonse, iwo sali ovuta, ndipo amvetse kuti pazinthu zambiri zomwe zimatichitikira, ife tiri ndi udindo.

Kodi mungayankhe bwanji mukapanda chilungamo?

Ngati kunyozedwa kuchokera ku moyo kunapangidwa ndi inu, ndiye kuti n'zoonekeratu kuti njira imeneyi yolingalira iyenera kutayidwa. Nanga bwanji ngati mumadzimva nokha kuti mbuye wanu sakuchita zinthu molakwika? Pambuyo pake, simungathe kukhala ndi mlandu wolephera, pamene akuyesera kupereka. Ngati izi zinali zoona, palibe amene angakulepheretseni kuntchito.

Pali njira zingapo zodzitetezera ku chisalungamo: mungathe kutsutsa wolakwira (kaya inuyo kapena ogwirizanitsa nawo), kubwezeretsa chilungamo mwachilungamo (kuyembekezera kuti wina adzachita) kapena kudzichepetsa ndi chisalungama, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti palibe chochitika chilichonse chokhumudwitsa. . Sankhani njira yothetsera iwe, koma tiyeni tione m'mene mungamenyane ndi bwana wosalungama.

1. Njira yosavuta komanso yodalirika kwambiri yolimbana ndi malingaliro olakwika a kasamalidwe ndikutaya. Kodi simukuwona nokha mphamvu ndi chikhumbo chowonetsera chirichonse kwa munthu? Ingopeza china ntchito, kumene iwe udzayamikiridwa.
2. Zolinga zanu zimatchulidwa ndi mtsogoleri wamba, kulandira matamando ndi mabhonasi, ndipo simukupeza ngakhale zinyumba kuchokera pa tebulo la mbuye wawo? Lekani kupanga malingaliro anu pamaso pa mtsogoleri, ndi malingaliro okondweretsa apite kwa wamkulu. Inde, mwinamwake simungagwirizane ndi bwana wanu molakwika, koma kodi ndinu wabwino kwa inu?
3. Kodi mukuyesera kuopsezedwa ndi antchito kuchepetsa ndi kachiwiri-certification, kukakamiza kuti musamagwire ntchito yanu? Werengani Code Labour ndipo musachite mantha, kuchotsa wogwira ntchito pa nkhanizi si kophweka.