Kulengeza zam'tsogolo pa tsiku laukwati

Atsikana ambiri kuyambira nthawi zakale amakasonkhana ku mitengo ya Khirisimasi, kuti adzalimbikitse chikondi. Pali njira zambiri zofotokozera, zomwe nthawi zambiri zimakhala zosavuta komanso zotsika mtengo. Kusinkhasinkha pa Khrisimasi pa mwamuna waukwati kudzakuuzeni ngati zingatheke kukwatirana chaka chamawa ndikukumana ndi munthu wabwino , ubale wanji, ndi zina zotero.

Kodi mungaganizire bwanji nyengo ya Khirisimasi pa mwamuna wokwatira?

Tiyeni tione njira zodziwika zodziwiratu zam'tsogolo:

1. Kulengeza izi pa tsiku laukwati kumathera pa loto, lomwe lingakuuzeni zomwe mwamuna wam'tsogolo adzawoneke. Musanagone, tengani chikho ndikutsanulira madzi mmenemo. Ndiye kuchokera pa tsacheyo mubweretse nthambi zingapo ndikupangira mlatho wopindulitsa kudzera m'madzi. Pazimenezi nkofunikira kunena mawu awa:

"Ndi ndani yemwe ali wosakhulupirika, yemwe ali mumamu wanga, aloleni ndilolere pamtsinjewo!"

Pambuyo pake, ikani zomangamanga pansi pa bedi pamutu pa bedi ndikugona. Mu maloto, inu mudzawonadi wosankhidwa wanu, ndipo iye ayenera kuyima mu diresi laukwati pa mlatho. Ngati mudzakwatirana posachedwa, ndiye kuti athandizani kuwoloka mlatho.

2. Kulengeza izi mu nyengo ya Khirisimasi kumagwiritsidwa ntchito pa munthu wina. Tengani singano ziwiri, imodzi kuti ikhale yaikulu kuposa imzake. Njole yaikulu idzaimira mwamuna, ndipo yaying'ono idzaimira mkazi. Gwiritsani zisoti ndi mafuta, mwachitsanzo, ndi mafuta ndi kuziika mu chidebe cha madzi. Pa khalidwe la singano ndi kutanthauzira kwaufulu. Ngati ali okhudzana, ndiye kuti mudzakhala ndi banja lolimba. Zisoti zinagawanika mosiyana - ichi ndi chizindikiro cha kupatukana . Zikakhala kuti singano "yamwamuna" imagwera pansi, zikutanthauza kuti ubalewo udzatha pamayesero a wosankhidwayo, ndipo ngati "mkazi", ubalewu udzakhala wofunika kwambiri.
3. Zotsatira izi zokhudzana ndi Khirisimasi chifukwa cha chisokonezo cha usiku zidzatheketsa kusankha omwe angasankhe pakati pa anthu ambiri okondwa. Tengani masamba ofanana a kukula kwazing'ono ndipo aliyense alembeni dzina la munthu yemwe amasonyeza chifundo, ndipo asiye pepala limodzi lopanda kanthu. Awatembenuzireni, ayambitseni ndikuyika pansi pa pillow. M'mawa, tenga pepala limodzi mwachisawawa ndikuyang'ana zotsatira. Pepala lopanda kanthu likunena kuti sipadzakhala ukwati mu chaka chomwe chikubwera.