Maloto omwe mumamuona wokondedwa, izi ndizofala. Mwinamwake inu simunalole kuti mupite kumbuyo ndi pa chidziwitso chomwe mukukumana nacho. Maloto oterewa angakhale chitsimikizo kwa inu kuti ndi nthawi yopitilira ku gawo latsopano mu moyo ndi kunena zabwino kwa zakale. Wamasulira amatanthauzira zingapo za zithunzi zowonedwa.
Malinga ndi zikhulupiliro zambiri, munthu yemwe akuwoneka m'maloto anu, amaganiza za inu, kuti poyenderana ndi yemwe kale anali naye sangathe kuthandiza kudzidalira.
Kodi wokonda kale ankalota chiyani?
Kugona kumachenjeza kuti m'moyo weniweni mudzachita zinthu mopupuluma, zomwe zingabweretse zotsatira zoipa. Pamene mnyamata wina amakuwonetsani kumverera kwachikondi - ndi chizindikiro choti muyenera kukonzekera zodabwitsa, osati zabwino zokha. Ngati mumalota mumpsompsonana ndi mnzanu wapamtima, ndiye, posachedwa, dikirani chidwi chachikulu. Kugonana ndi iye kumalonjeza kugwedezeka kwa mkangano wakale.
Chifukwa china chimene mnyamata wachikulire ankalota malingaliro ake ndi kumudziwa kwake ndi mnzake yemwe ali naye panopa. Yesetsani kusiya zimenezi, chifukwa izi zingayambitse mavuto aakulu. Maloto okhudza munthu amene kale anali naye amatha kuwonetsera kukhalapo kwa mantha kapena kupandukira kwa okondedwa. Mukawona wokondedwa wanu wakale wokwatiwa ndi wokondwa - chizindikiro chakuti muzowona mumakhululukira munthu chifukwa cha chipongwe. Ngati mumadziona kuti ndinu mkazi wa mnyamata, muyenera kukonzekera nkhawa ndi nkhawa. Kutanthauzira chifukwa chake yemwe kale ankakonda akulowetserako kumwemwetulira - makamaka mu moyo weniweni inu mukukayikira mopanda chiyanjano ubale wanu wamakono.
Mu maloto, munawona chikondi chanu choyamba, mwinamwake, chimasonyeza kuti mwatopa ndi moyo wachikulire, umene uli wodzaza ndi udindo, kutopa, ndi zina zotero. Dreambook akuyamikira pa nkhaniyi kuti asokoneze, mwachitsanzo, kupita kumayendedwe kapena kupanga msonkhano wachikondi.
Pezani mphatso yamaloto kuchokera kwa omwe kale anali okonda - chiwonetsero cha kusakhulupirika kotheka posachedwa. Ngati mukumenya kapena kupha mnzanu wakale, ndiye posachedwa mudzakhala ndi mwayi muzochita zonse. Wolamulira wankhanza akulangiza kuti asamachite mantha ndi kusankha ngakhale pa zovuta zosautsa. Maloto omwe mumawona omwe kale anali okondana mu chiyanjano chatsopano, akulengeza chidziwitso chatsopano chimene chidzakulolani kuti mupange ubale. Pamene simunazindikire munthu wakale m'maloto - ndi chizindikiro cha kusintha kwakukulu pamoyo, osati mwa inu nokha. Komanso, malotowo amavomereza kuti pangakhale msonkhano wokhazikika ndi yemwe kale anali naye.
Chifukwa chiyani chikondi choyambirira chimalota nthawi zonse?
Pachifukwa ichi, muyenera kuganizira mosamala ndikudzimvetsa nokha, mwinamwake kumverera ndi kuyankhulana pakati panu pakadali pano, ndipo mukhoza kukonza. Mwamuna wakale nthawi zonse amalota, koma panthawi imodzimodziyo mutakhala ndi chikondi chatsopano, ndiye, mwinamwake, mulibe chikondi chokwanira,
Kodi mnyamata wakale wakufa amalota chiyani?
Pankhaniyi, maloto angakhale chenjezo kuti muli mu ngozi yaikulu. Ngati munthu wakufa m'maloto amakuthandizani kuthana ndi vuto linalake kapena kukupulumutsani ku ngozi yaikulu - ichi ndi chizindikiro chabwino chomwe chidzakuuzani kuti muli pansi chitetezo chosaoneka chomwe chidzathetse mavuto ambiri.