Kodi ndikusowa maphunziro enanso kwa mkazi wamakono?

Zimakhala kuti iye ali nazo kapena ayi, koma anthu amakhala chifukwa cha malingaliro awo. Ndi omwe akhala ndi nthawi yambiri ndipo sadakwanitse kufika, zoopsa kwambiri zikhoza kuchitika, mpaka kudzipha. Kodi chimachitika ndi chiyani kwa iwo omwe apindula mokwanira? Zikuwoneka, apa ndizo chimwemwe, kukhala ndi moyo ndikusangalala ndi zotsatira. Koma chododometsa cha moyo chimakhala mwachindunji ponena kuti munthu yemwe wafika pamalo ake apamwamba, amakhala wosasangalala, chifukwa palibe malo oti apite ndipo palibe chosowa.

Panthawi imeneyi, munthu wamkulu amakhala ndi mwayi wokhala mwana komanso wolota komanso "atulukira" zolinga zatsopano ndikufotokozera pamwamba. Panthawiyi, pamene maloto atsopano atha kale, maphunziro ena, ngati palibe china chilichonse, angathandize ndikubweretsa pafupi ndi kupambana kwa mtsogolo. Izi ndizosiyana kwambiri ndi chitukuko chaumwini. Komanso, zimakhala zovuta kwambiri ngati kusinkhasinkha koteroko sikuchitika.

Pomwe pali kusowa kwa maphunziro?

Moyo wosakhulupirika

Taganizirani nkhani yosakwaniritsa maloto oyamba. Mkazi wamkulu, pakati pa zaka 30 ndi 40, ali ndi ana, anali wokwatira, amagwira ntchito zosiyanasiyana osadziŵa ntchito: wogulitsa, barman, wosamba madzi, woyang'anira nyumba. Ngakhale kuti monga mayi anachitapo (chomwe chiri chofunikira kwambiri kwa mkazi), sanakulire munthu, samamva kuti ndiwokhutira ndi maganizo ake kapena chuma chake ndi ntchito yake. Nthawi inayake, chisankhocho chidzabwera patsogolo pake - kaya akhale ndi moyo ("palibe chabwino chomwe ndimachokera, ndikuphunzitsa ana anga kuti asakhale opusa"), kapena kuchoka kumalo otonthoza ndikuyamba kusambira motsatira. Kodi ndizofunikira kutsimikiziranso kuti ngakhale mutangomaliza maphunziro anu, musamaphunzire malo oyenerera, umunthu wake udzayamba kukhalapo kuyambira nthawi yopanga chisankho chosintha moyo.

Kuchepetsa

Omwe amakonda alendo a maphunziro osiyanasiyana ndi osiyana ndi mkazi wammbuyo, yemwe ali ndi zonse m'moyo, kuphatikizapo nthawi yochuluka. Kupita kukongola salons kumakhala kotopetsa, palibe amene angalankhule naye, mwamuna wanga nthawi zonse amagwira ntchito, palibe chochita ndi maganizo ake. Choncho amadzilembera okha kusukulu ndi kusoka (amadziwa mafashoni), ku Chingerezi (chifukwa amadziwa zonse), ku French (chifukwa ndi chikondi), komanso kumapangidwe ka mkati (kupanga chida chatsopano cha nyumba yawo). Zoonadi, changu chimenechi cha chidziwitso n'chododometsa, koma nthawi zambiri changu chimakhala chokwanira kwa makalasi awiri oyambirira.

Ngozi: momwe mungaphunzire kukhala dvoechnitsy?

Pazifukwa zina, ngati mwadutsa pamalo anu atsopano alma mater, anu ali pangozi. Mukayamba kuchita chinthu chatsopano ndi chosachitika, maphunziro amayamba nthawi zonse ndi ma dekesi. Koma ndi chinthu chimodzi pamene mutapeza chimodzi, kukhala ndi nkhumba ku sukulu ya sukulu kuchokera kwa aphunzitsi oopsya komanso okhwima, komanso ena, mutakula, ndi lilime lakuthwa, ngakhale mphunzitsi wamng'ono kuposa inu. Apa ndizosatheka kufotokoza luso lake, ndi kutsutsa njira zophunzitsira, kawirikawiri, zimanyadira kuchoka ndipo musakhale ndi ndalama zothandizira maphunziro. Muzochitika izi, chinthu chachikulu ndizozoloŵera choonadi chowawa kuti pano ndiwe woyamba ndipo aliyense woyandikana nawo ali watsopano. Ngati zikuwoneka kuti ukusekedwa, ndiwe wopusa kuposa aliyense, iwe umakhala ngati slobber - dziwani kuti aliyense sasamala konse, ndipo ena, monga inu, amaganizira momwe angatengere ndalama zambiri za ndalama zawo. Zimene mwachita kapena zomwezo ndizolakwika, ambiri sangazindikire.

M'mawu, ndiwothandiza kuphunzira chifukwa chakuti ubongo ukaleka kulandira katundu, timayamba kukula. Monga minofu ya atrophied, ubongo, monga wopanda pake, udzakhala mutu wodzaza mutu, kulemera. Ndipo wolimbika kuti aphunzire chinachake chatsopano pa msinkhu wokhazikika wa anthu, tidzasunthira kumoyo watsopano ndipo ndithudi tidzapambana.