Musanayambe kuwerenga ndondomeko za momwe mungakhalire wodekha, yankhani nokha ku funsolo, koma muyenera kumudzudzula? Kulira ndi chifananitso cha kulankhula, chifukwa mwana sakudziwa kulankhula. Chifukwa cha mawu awa, kuyesa kayendedwe ka mantha kwa makolo komanso nthawi zina oyandikana nayo, mwanayo amayamba mapapu ake, amawonjezera mphamvu yake, amawonjezera magazi ndi mpweya. Mphindi zisanu ndi zisanu ndikulira popanda chifukwa ndizovuta. Kuonjezera apo, makolo samawona chifukwa, koma mwana ali ndi izi: amayi apita patali, amafuna, ali ndi njala, ndi nthawi yosintha chithunzithunzi, ndi zina zotero. Koma pali zochitika pamene mwanayo akudzidzimutsa motero kuti mayiyo ali wokonzeka kupita kwa chiyanjano chirichonse, kungosangalala ndi chete. Mawere ndi osavuta kutontholetsa: manja a amayi ndi mawere amachita zodabwitsa. Koma ana okalamba ndi ovuta kwambiri, koma pali njira yothetsera vutoli.
Timasokoneza, timalankhula, timalimbikitsa
Kawirikawiri, makolo amadabwa ndi momwe angakhalire pansi mwana asanakagone, chifukwa amatsenga ambiri amachitika nthawiyi. Ngati mwanayo sali ndi zaka zoposa zisanu ndi zisanu ndi zisanu ndi zisanu ndi ziwiri, ndiye kuti mukhoza kumudziwitsa bwino za nkhani yofunika, yomwe, chifukwa cha kulira, sangakhale nayo nthawi. Mwachitsanzo, kumbukirani kuti ankamvetsera nkhaniyi. "Tiyeni tiyambe kanthawi pang'ono, ndipo tsopano ndikuwerengerani." Kawirikawiri ana ndi otsika, ndipo amaiwala "kulira". Njira ina ndi kumupempha mwanayo kuti afuule pang'ono kuti abambo asadzutse kapena galu sakuwopsyeza. Pamene mwanayo amvera, kulira kwenikweni kudzatha, ndipo "kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi" sikudzatha. Ana amatha kuvulazidwa ndi pempho lolira mofulumira kuti ayambe kumayambiriro. Mwachidziwikire, momwe mungalimbikitsire mwanayo akulira pamasewera amachititsa chidwi. Chinthu chachikulu sichiyenera kutsekedwa komanso kuti tisapitirirebe pang'ono zazing'ono.
Kunyalanyaza nthawi zina ndi njira yowonjezera, koma pazifukwa izi munthu ayenera kukhala wotsimikiza kotheratu kuti caprice ndiwopseza, osati pempho la kutenga mbali ndi chisamaliro.
Kawirikawiri mumatha kumva momwe makolo amalongosolera kuti mwana "apereke kusintha" ku mtengo, amene nthambi yake idamugwirira ntchito, pansi pomwe adagwa. Njirayi imagwira ntchito - mwanayo amasokonezedwa ndi kugunda mtengo kapena pansi, koma sangathe "kukhumudwitsa". Mu malingaliro a mwanayo, maganizo oterewa angathe kukhazikitsidwa, omwe ana ena amavutika nawo mtsogolomu.
"Osati mawu amodzi .."
Pamene mawu ndi kukopa sikugwira ntchito, mukhoza kuyesa tiyi kwa ana pa zitsamba. Zotsatira zabwino zimaperekedwa ndi chamomile ndi linden, koma zitsamba zingaperekedwe kwa mwana kuchokera miyezi inayi. Kusungunuka kwabwino kwa kayendedwe ka mantha ka mwana wathanzi kumathandizidwa ndi kusamba kwapadera kwa ana (monga mwayi - ndi choyimitsa paini). Ngati palibe mankhwala, ndiye kuti mukasambira mungathe kuwonjezera mafuta odzoza omwe ali oyenera kwa ana a miyezi isanu ndi umodzi. Limbikitsani kusangalala ndi kuchotsedwa
Ngati zovuta zimakhala zochitika nthawi zonse, dokotala angapereke ana kuti azisintha, zomwe zingathandize kukonza ntchito ya mitsempha. Musamvere uphungu wa anzanu za zomwe zimapangitsa ana kukhala ochepetsetsa komanso mlingo uliwonse. Khalidwe la mwana wamatenda ndi lachangu ndilovuta, choncho, dokotala yekha ayenera kupereka mankhwala. Kawirikawiri ana amakhanda akulimbikitsidwa kuti dormykids, ndipo ana oposa chaka ndi ovomerezeka notte. Ma pharmacies amakhalanso ndi zosonkhanitsira ana, zomwe zingaperekedwe miyezi iwiri kapena itatu.
Kumbukirani, momwe mumamvera mukamalira muyenera kukhala okwanira: chifukwa kulira kwanu m'tsogolomu mwanayo adzachitapo kanthu mukamudzudzula lero.