Kodi mukukumbukira fanizo la nyani yoyera? Haju Nasreddin atafunsidwa kuti chinsinsi cha kusafa ndi chiti, adayankha kuti chinsinsicho ndi chosavuta - kusaganizira za nyani yoyera. Sikovuta kuganiza zomwe wophunzira yemwe adayesayesa kukayikira pambuyo pake amaganizira.
Kupempha lingaliro kuti tisamachite chinachake, timaganizira kwambiri za izi, choncho, tikubwerera ku vutoli. Tiyeni tiyambe kuyesetsa pang'ono ndikuphunzira momwe tingasiyire kuganizira za zochitika zakale, za chibwenzi choyambirira (mwinamwake okondedwa), kusintha njira ya moyo.
Khwerero 1: Kukhululukirana ndi kuvomereza
Mkwiyo ndi mkwiyo zimapweteka mtima wamtima ndipo zimanyalanyaza zoyesayesa zonse kuti zichiritse: zanu, ndi nthawi. Zindikirani kuti simungathe kulanga munthu mumlanduwu, monga momwe simungathe komanso simungathe kumaganiza za iye. Choncho, khalani nokha, mumkhululukire. Pachifukwachi, simukusowa kukumana, tangolingalirani (mnyamata kapena mkhalidwe wakale ngati wonse), pemphani chikhululukiro ndi kukhululukira. Landirani kuti zomwe zinachitika kale. Inu simungakhoze kusintha izo, ndipo malingaliro ndi maganizo oyipa ali basi nangula mu malo osokonezeka kumene chirichonse chinachitika. Iye sangakulole inu kuti mupitirire. Ndipo patsogolo ife tiri ndi zinthu zambiri zosangalatsa!
Khwerero 2: Kuchotsa Zikumbutso
Kodi mungaleke bwanji kulingalira za munthu yemwe chithunzi chake chikuphatika pa kompyuta yanu? Pamene "nyimbo yanu" imasewera kasanu pa tsiku m'ndandanda yanu. Ngati inu mugona, mukubisala kumbuyo kwa rugudu, woperekedwa kwa iwo pa tsiku lobadwa. Ndi nthawi yokonzekera ndi mzimu, kusonkhanitsa zikumbutso zonse za iye ndikuzibisa. Sadzatayika paliponse (kupatulapo, ngati mukufuna kusankha kuwotcha kapena kuwachotsa). Koma iwo adzasiya dongosolo loyamba. Ndipo, ndikukhulupirirani, kuti ndiyanjanitse ndi kusakhala kwawo zidzakhala zosavuta kusiyana ndi kupereka nthawi yamtengo wapatali ya tsiku ndi tsiku kukumbukira zowawa.
Khwerero 3: Kusintha Moyo
Ndiyo nthawi yosintha moyo wanu, kuchoka zakale mpaka lero. Kuti muchite izi:
- tisiyeni nthawi yochepa. Timapatula nthawi yochuluka kuti tigwire ntchito, kuphunzira, phokoso lapamtima ndi anzathu (kupewa kukhala pafupi ndi gulu laling'ono kumene kukambirana momveka bwino ndi zovuta kukumbukira mosavuta). Momwemonso, lingaliro la "momwe mungasiyire kuganiza za munthu wokondedwa" liyenera kulowetsedwa ndi "komwe mungatenge maola angapo patsiku";
- tidzipezeni nokha. Simudziwa kuyika mtanda, ubweya kapena sopo kuphika? Mwamwayi, padziko lapansi muli zokondweretsa aliyense. Mwachitsanzo, kuvina kapena kuphunzira chinenero china. Musawope kuchita nawo mpikisano, kulumikizana ndi dziko lonse lapansi. Ndikofunika kuti mukumva kuti dzikoli ndi lalikulu bwanji komanso kuti ndi lothandiza bwanji.
- Timayenda. Mukamalimbikitsa mphamvu zanu, mutha kuyenda ulendo wautali (khalani - tchuthi ndikukhala m'dziko lina), komabe mungayambe ndi kufufuza mwatsatanetsatane za malo oyandikana nawo. Kulikonse kumene mumakhala, nthawi zonse mudzapeza malo osangalatsa komanso mfundo zomwe simukuzidziwa. Sizolakwika kuitanira abwenzi ochokera kumalo ena kuti aphunzire malo anu pamodzi;
- timasintha tokha. Kodi mwasintha kalembedwe ka tsitsi lanu kwa nthawi yaitali? Kodi mumayesa kalembedwe?
Nagula madzi atsopano a chimbudzi? Ndi nthawi yopereka chikondi chochuluka kwa inu nokha, kuti mupeze chisangalalo ndi chokongola "I"; - samalirani ena. Chifundo chomwe chimaphatikizidwa m'masiku ovutika chingathe kuphulika mwa kusamalira ena. Mwachitsanzo, nyama. Kapena anthu omwe akusowa chikondi chanu. Chikondi ndikumverera komwe dziko likusowa ndipo lidzasowa kwamuyaya. Ndibwino kuti muli ndi mphamvu ya chikondi, kokha mukufunikira kuyendetsa njira ina. Muyenera kumverera chimwemwe chomwe mumafuna, ndipo mitima ina imayanjana nawo. Ngati n'zovuta kuti muyankhulane ndi anthu ena, kondanani ndi okondedwa anu. Ndikhulupirire, ichi ndi ndalama zabwino za chikondi chanu, chomwe chidzabweretsa chidwi.