Mu moyo wa mkazi aliyense, posachedwa kapena mtsogolo pali chochitika chachikulu - kubadwa kwa mwana. Kwa ambiri, udindo wa amayi ndi wodabwitsa, wodalirika kwambiri ndipo umatenga pafupifupi nthawi yonse yaulere. Ndipo moyo sumaima ndipo anthu ambiri amaganiza kuti umadutsa. Chaka kapena chaka ndi chaka pambuyo pa kubadwa kwa mwana, amayi amayamba kuganiza za kupita kuntchito. Koma ndikuti? Kodi ndiyenera kubwerera kumalo anga akale ndi choti ndichite ngati panalibe ntchito konse? Vuto lina ndilokudetsa nkhaŵa. Kaya nthabwala, kusiya moyo kwa zaka 2-3. Kubwerera ku chizolowezi chozoloŵera nthawi zonse kumakhala kovuta kwambiri. Komabe, palibe vuto loterolo limene sipadzakhala njira yotulukira. Tiyeni tiyesetse kupeza momwe tingachitire ndi zovuta ndikupeza ntchito yabwino.
Gawo loyamba ndikuchotsa nkhawa ndi kusatsimikizika
Monga akunena, njira yabwino yothetsera mantha ndiyo kumuyang'ana pamaso. Pakati pa amayi ambiri achichepere pali nthabwala - ndi mtundu wanji wa ntchito, ndi diploma yotani, ngati nthano za ana ndizophika phala ziribe mutu? Ndipotu, zonse sizili choncho padziko lonse lapansi. Ngati mumakayikira luso lanu, simukudzidalira nokha ndipo simukudziwa zomwe mukugwira nawo ntchito, yesetsani kuchita zochepa zolimbitsa thupi:
- Khalani pansi ndipo mutenge bwino. Tsekani maso anu ndikuganiza kuti mukukhala paphiri lalitali, kumene mungathe kuona pamwamba pa mitengo, mitsinje ndi msewu wautali;
- Talingalirani kuti njira iyi ndi moyo wanu. Chiyambi cha njira ndi kubadwa kwanu, ndipo tsogolo lanu liri pafupi;
- Kuyang'ana pansi pa moyo wanu, yambani kukumbukira nthawi zowala kwambiri za izo. Zochitika zimenezo pamene simunadzimvere nokha pamwamba, pamtunda wa ulemerero ndi kukhutira nokha. Kumbukirani kuti nthawi izi zinali zotani, ndipo muzochitika zotani zomwe zinachitika;
- Dzipangitseni nokha ndi cholembera ndi cholembera ndikulemba zitsanzo 10 za pamene mudakhala okondwa, okondedwa, opambana, ndi zina zotero. ;
- Pambuyo pa zochitikazo, yesani zolemba zanu. Iwo adzakupatsani yankho la funso la zomwe mukufuna ndi zomwe mungathe kuchita m'moyo uno, omwe mungathe kukhala nawo komanso zomwe mungakwanitse.
Kupyolera mu zochitikazi, mudzakhalanso ndi chikhulupiriro mwa inu nokha ndi mphamvu zanu. Muyenera kuzindikira zapadera ndikumvetsa zomwe mukufuna kuchita ndi zomwe zimakupatsani chisangalalo.
Choncho, mutadzidzimva nokha, muyenera kupita ku gawo lachiwiri - kufunafuna ntchito.
Khwerero lachiwiri - ntchito ndi zofuna zimapangitsa kukambirana
Lamulo lalikulu limene mayi ayenera kulandira ndi lakuti simukuyenera kudikirira mpaka atakupezani ndikukupatsani ntchito. Yambani kukonzekera kufufuza nokha. Ndithudi, mwana, izi ndizo zopindulitsa, chifukwa pali chitsimikizo kuti posachedwapa simukupita ku lamuloli. Komabe, amayi achichepere samakonda olemba ntchito. Pali zifukwa zingapo izi:
- mlingo wa chidziwitso chanu mutasiya lamuloli, monga lamulo, mumasiya kwambiri;
- palibe amene waletsa chinthu choterocho ngati momwe mwanayo amachitira pa sukulu ya kindergarten. Olemba ntchito sangakhale okondwa kukhala ndi antchito amene nthawi zambiri amapita ku odwala chifukwa cha mwana;
- Chifukwa china chachikulu ndi kusatsimikizika. Pambuyo pa lamuloli, zimakhala zovuta kuti mkazi ayese mphamvu zake monga antchito. Kuwonjezera mapaundi owonjezera, otsala atatha kubereka, kukhumudwitsa pafupifupi aliyense. Ndipo izi sizidzadziwika.
Kodi muyenera kuchita chiyani? Ndikofunika kugwira ntchito, ndipo moyo umapitirira. Ndipo ntchito yanu ndi kulowa mu moyo uno ndikunyamula zopinga zanu. Ingomvetsera zamalangizo ena:
- Musanayambe kufunafuna ntchito, yesetsani kupeza njira zoyenera kuti musamalire mwanayo: ndani angamuyendetse m'kayuniyake ndikukhala naye pazomwe akudwala, onetsetsani kuti mwana wanu wasintha kale kuti ayambe kulamulira, ndipo amadziwa kuti mayiyo pitani kwa tsiku lonse mpaka madzulo.
- Pamene funso la bungwe la nthawi ya mwana lidasankhidwa, yesani kupita kutchuthi ndikupumula pang'ono kuchokera kwa mwanayo komanso ulamuliro wa tsikuli. Ndikofunika kwambiri kuti musinthe zinthu ndikupuma pang'ono musanapeze ntchito. Samalani chithunzi chanu, thanzi, zovala ndi maonekedwe. Limbikitsani anthu omwe sanatayike miyoyo yawo kwa zaka 2-3 ndikukumvetsa zamakono.
- Dzipangire nokha kubwereza bwino. Kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi, omwe mwalimbikitsidwa poyamba, kudzakuthandizani kupeza chidziwitso ndi ulemu wanu.
- Wothandizira wamkulu pakufufuza ntchito ndi intaneti. Masiku ano, amayi ambiri aang'ono amapeza ntchito panyumba (zomwe zimatchedwa kuti zosasunthika) kapena pa kuchoka kwa lamulolo, amafufuzira injini zofufuzira pofunafuna ntchito. Ndiyenera kunena popanda kupambana.
- Samalani malo omwe amapereka chithandizo kuti apeze ntchito. Mutha kuchoka pomwepo ndikupeza mndandanda wamakalata onse omwe akutsatirani. Mukapeza chinthu chochititsa chidwi, mungatchule munthu yemwe angagwiritse ntchito ntchito kapena mutumizeni kuti mupitirize kukambirana. Ndipo zonsezi, popanda kuchoka kunyumba! Komanso, mukhoza kuyang'ana pa mawebusaiti monga momwe mwakhazikitsira bwino kuyambiranso ndi kuwonjezera pa zolembedwa zochititsa chidwi zokhudza inu nokha.
Khwerero 3 - pitani ku zokambirana
Mukapatsidwa kuyankhulana, kumbukirani malamulo angapo ofunika musanayambe kukambirana:
- Dziwani kuti mwana wanu ali kale m'banjamo ndipo ngati akudwala, amakhala ndi wina woti akhale naye.
- Fotokozani zoona zenizeni za zinthu zenizeni m'moyo wanu. Mwachitsanzo, kuti munalibe malo ogwira ntchito, koma mutakhala pansi pa lamulo, nthawi zonse mumatsatira mizere yatsopano yomwe mwasankha, ndi zina zotero. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kulankhulana ndi kuthekera kwa kayendetsedwe ka chinenero cha malonda ndikuwonetsa kudzidalira.
- Ngakhale mutakana, musakhumudwe. Kotero uwu suli ntchito yomwe mumasowa ndipo ndibwino kuti munthu amene sanaone zomwe mungathe sangakhale bwana wanu.
Kumbukirani chinthu chachikulu - mu bizinesi iliyonse, khalani kufufuza ntchito, kapena kuzindikira kwamuyaya, choyamba muyenera kudzidalira. Mukatha kukhulupirira nokha ngati katswiri wapamwamba, olemba ntchito sangakhale ndi njira zina zomwe angakhulupirire. Mulimonsemo, inu munatha kubala ndi kulera mwana, chomwe ndi chithunzithunzi, choyenera kudzikuza kwanu. Pitirizani kunyada ndipo mudzapambana!