Kupsompsona koyamba kwa munthu aliyense kumapita malinga ndi momwe amachitira, ndi njira imodzi yosiyana ndi msinkhu. Ichi ndi chochititsa chidwi chomwe chidzakumbukira kwa nthawi yaitali. Anthu ambiri amasangalala ndi zaka zingati zomwe mumakhoza kumpsyopsyona kuti muzimva bwino. Chiwerengero chachikulu cha anthu, malinga ndi kafukufukuwo, kumbukirani moyo wawo wonse, ndi liti, pomwe chibwenzi choyamba chinayamba.
Ndi zaka zingati mungatsompsone pamilomo?
Malinga ndi chiwerengero, chochitika chotere chikuchitika paunyamata, zaka 12-16. Atsikana akamakula mofulumira kusiyana ndi anyamata, amapsompsona kale, akusankha anzawo omwe ali ndi chidziwitso. Atsikana ambiri aang'ono, oopa kutsutsidwa komanso osakakamizika kutsogolo kwa anzawo, amasankha kugompsona koyamba, ndipo akatswiri a maganizo akuganiza kuti ichi ndi kulakwitsa kwakukulu, chifukwa chochitikacho chikhoza kusiya vuto lalikulu la maganizo pambuyo pawokha. Kupsompsona koyamba ayenera kukhala woona mtima.
Ndizosatheka kunena momwe mungagwiritsire kupsompsona, chifukwa chenicheni sichimalola kulekanitsidwa ndi malamulo. Ndicho chifukwa chake n'kosatheka kutchula zaka zenizeni, chifukwa munthu aliyense ali ndi chochitikachi payekha.
Kodi mungampsompsone zaka zingati:
- Nthawi ya zaka 4-6. Nthawi yoyamba iwo ankampsopsona pamene ali mu tebulo. Chidwi chingasonyeze mnyamata ndi mtsikana. Anthu achikulire amapsompsona ana kuti asonyeze chikondi chawo ndi maubwenzi ofunda, ndipo monga ana amaphunzira kuchokera kwa akuluakulu, nawonso amasonyeza chifundo kwa bwenzi la sukulu ya sukulu. Anthu samaganiza kuti izi ndizofunikira ndipo nthawi zambiri amaiwala.
- Nthawiyi ndi zaka 7-9. Kukondana ndi anthu pa nthawi ino kukumbukiridwa bwino kwambiri. Malingana ndi kufufuza, amapezeka nthawi zambiri kusukulu kapena pa zochitika zilizonse, mwachitsanzo, discos yoyamba. Mu nthawi yamasiku ano, pali zoyamba zachifundo, zomwe zimapangitsa ana kumpsompsona.
- Nthawi ya zaka 10-12. Panthawiyi, palinso chilakolako chakuthupi kwa anthu omwe si amuna kapena akazi anzawo. Ndicho chifukwa chake kupsompsonana kale, sikungotumikira monga chiwonetsero cha chifundo, komanso kumakupatsani mwayi wokondwera. Ndi anthu ochepa pa msinkhu uno amene amakupsompsona kwambiri.
- Zaka 13. Kumvetsa zaka zingati zomwe mungamupsompsone achinyamata, zaka izi ziyenera kusankhidwa padera, chifukwa, malinga ndi chiwerengero, ndi nthawi ino yomwe anthu ambiri akutha msinkhu. Kupsompsona ndi imodzi mwa mwayi waukulu wokhala ndi chiyanjano chakuthupi ndi abambo.
- Nthawi ya 14-16 zaka. Panthawiyi, anyamata amayamba kuchita ndi mphamvu zakupsompsonana, osati ndi anthu omwe amamvera chisoni. Izi zimafotokozedwa kokha ndi chikoka cha thupi.
- Nthawi ya zaka 17-18. Ngati ndizosangalatsa, ndi zaka zingati zomwe mungapsompsone ndi chilankhulo, ndiye nthawi iyi ndi yabwino kwa mawonetseredwe oterewa, chifukwa munthu kale ali wamkulu ndipo akhoza kudziyankhira yekha zochita zawo. Ngakhale kumasulidwa kwa achinyamata amakono kungapezekebe
anthu omwe sanapsompsone pa msinkhu uno. - Nthawi ya zaka 20-30. Nkhani zoterezi ndizosowa kwambiri ndipo akatswiri a maganizo amaganiza kuti pali zolakwika zina.
Mu nthawi yodalirika, anthu musanayambe msonkhano ndikuyesera kukonzekera kupsompsona. Choyamba, nkofunikira kusamalira mpweya watsopano, ndipo kachiwiri, kukonzekera maganizo. Ndikofunika kuti musadandaule, chifukwa chisangalalo chochuluka chingakhale chopinga chachikulu musanapindule ndi ndondomekoyi. Ndikofunika kuti masamba oyambirira akupsompsona pambuyo pakumverera kokondweretsa, zomwe mudzakumbukire moyo wanu wonse.