Mphungu imasiya kumvetsa. Kumbali imodzi, ichi ndi chokongola kwambiri zachilengedwe, chomwe chimakondweretsa kwenikweni, koma panthawi yomweyi, mathithi ndi chinthu chosayendetsedwa chimene munthu angayembekezere chirichonse. Poganizira izi, komanso maloto omwe munawona mathithi, ndi osamvetsetseka, kotero ndi kofunika kutanthauzira muzochitika zina.
Kodi mathithi amalota chiyani?
Ngati muyang'ana kuyendayenda kwa madzi ndikuwopa nthawi yomweyo, ndi chizindikiro chakuti mu moyo weniweni mumakonda kukokomeza zochitika zomwe zimayambitsa nkhawa. Pamene mathithi amadzutsa chidwi chanu - izi zikhoza kukhala chenjezo kuti ndinu osasamala. Madzi onyansa, owopsa ndi owopsya ndiwo chizindikiro chakuti nthawi zambiri mumathawa mavuto ndipo simungathe kuwathetsa. Maloto omwe mathithi amadziwika ndi inu ndi chenjezo kuti mungathe kulakwitsa nokha.
Nthaŵi zambiri, mathithi amachititsa kusintha kwa moyo wanu, ndipo zingathe kuchitika kumunda uliwonse wa ntchito. Kulakalaka mathithi ndikumva phokoso lake ndi chizindikiro chakuti posachedwa mudzamva nkhani zomwe sizidzakhala zosayembekezereka kwa inu, koma zosangalatsa nthawi yomweyo.
Mu maloto anu, mumagwa pa mathithi ndipo nthawi yomweyo mumakhala osangalala - uwu ndi chenjezo kuti, ngakhale kuti ndinu munthu wokhulupirira, nthawi ndi nthawi, ndi bwino kuyesa mkhalidwewo ndi mawonekedwe abwino. Ngati kugwa kunachititsa kuti mukhale ndi mantha ambiri - ndizowonetsa zomwe mukukumana nazo, koma musawopsyeze, chifukwa chilichonse chingathetsedwe mwamsanga komanso popanda khama.
M'modzi mwa mabuku a malotowo muli mfundo yoti ngati mathithi akulota, posachedwapa mudzatha kudziwonetsa nokha ndi kudziletsa kwanu. Kuthamanga kwa madzi ena kumalonjeza msonkhano, womwe wakhala ukuyesera kupeŵa kwa nthawi yaitali. Kugwa kwa mathithi okongola mumaloto ndi chizindikiro cha kuti ndinu wokhulupirira kwambiri ndipo mukhoza kupeza chisangalalo ngakhale muzinthu zing'onozing'ono.