Chikhalidwe cha khalidwe

Munthu aliyense ali ndi khalidwe lake lapadera lomwe limamusiyanitsa ndi ena. Chiwonongeko cha zinthu zoterezi chimatchedwa khalidwe. Psychology yakhala yayitali komanso yopitilira kuphunzira zovuta izi, ngakhale atakwanitsa kukhala ndi bungwe layekha - khalidwe. Pansi pa chidwi chake ndi makhalidwe a umunthu wake, mapangidwe ake ndi mawonekedwe ake, njira zodziwira zinthu zosiyana ndi zina zambiri. Tiyeni tione ena mwa mafunso awa mwatsatanetsatane.

Kupanga khalidwe

Nthawi zina mumatha kumva mafotokozedwe osonyeza umunthu wa munthu "Ndinabadwa mochuluka ndipo sindingathe kutero". Mwina ndi zoona, koma kuchokera kumalingaliro a psychology sizolondola. Chowonadi ndi chakuti khalidwe silinaperekedwe kwa ife pakubalidwa, ilo limapangidwa mothandizidwa ndi zochitika zosiyanasiyana. Kukhazikika kwa khalidwe kumayambira m'zaka za msinkhu, ndipo kwa zaka 15 munthuyo ali ndi malingaliro kwa ena. Chifuniro mwa chikhalidwe chimayamba kukhazikitsidwa paunyamata, ndipo maziko a makhalidwe amakhazikitsidwa ngakhale ali wamng'ono. Ndili ndi zaka 17, kukhazikika kwa malingaliro kumapezekanso, zinthu zomwe zidzakhala zofunika pamoyo wonse zimalumikizidwa. Mu psychology, amakhulupirira kuti patapita zaka 30 kusintha mu chikhalidwe cha khalidwe la munthu ndi zovuta kwambiri kupanga, kukhulupirira kuti m'badwo uno umunthu umabwera ndi kale kale maganizo opangidwa.

Makhalidwe a umunthu mu maganizo

Makhalidwe apamwamba a umunthu ali ndi mgwirizano woonekera pakati pawo, kupanga mawonekedwe a khalidwelo. Kudziwa chiwembuchi kumapereka, pozindikira kuti pali chinthu chimodzi mwa munthu, kuti adziŵe kukhalapo kwa ena akutsatira, ndi kupezeka kwa maphwando omwe angatsutsana ndi khalidwe lachidziwitso.

Zina mwa zikhalidwe, khalidwe lachiwiri ndi loyamba, loyankhulana, bizinesi, zolimbikitsa komanso zoyankhulirana zimasiyana. Kuima kunja ndi magulu a zikhalidwe za khalidwe - zachibadwa ndi zachilendo, komanso zinthu zomwe zimapangitsa kuti pakhale kusiyana pakati pa mitengo iwiriyi.

Mfundo zazikuluzikulu zikuphatikizapo zomwe zikuwonetsedwa mu chikhalidwe kusiyana ndi zina, ndipo zina zachiwiri ndizo zomwe zinawonekera mtsogolomu, ndipo zimapangidwira pamaziko oyambirira. Zizolowezi zoyambirira (zoyambirira) sizingatheke kusintha, kukhala ndi munthu pa moyo. Ndipo yachiwiri - osati yosasunthika, akusintha zinthu mothandizidwa ndi zochitika zosiyanasiyana.

Zolimbikitsa zimasonyeza ntchito ya khalidwe ndi malangizo ake. Izi zimaphatikizapo zofuna ndi zolinga za munthu, makamaka, zomwe zimamupangitsa kuchita kanthu. Zida zamatsenga ndizo zomwe zimathandiza kukwaniritsa zolinga zina. Izi ndizo, izi zimakhala njira yopezera zomwe mukufuna. Tikadziwonetsera izi mwa munthu, tikhoza kufotokoza khalidwe lake, komanso kulongosola zomwe zimachitika.

Ndi tanthauzo la zinthu zachizolowezi, zonse zimakhala zosavuta, izi ndizosiyana ndi anthu omwe alibe maganizo matenda. Choncho, zovuta zachilendo zimatchulidwa kwa anthu omwe ali ndi matenda osiyanasiyana, mwachitsanzo, matenda oopsa, schizophrenia, TIR kapena neurosis. Kwa anthu abwinobwino, makhalidwe oterewa sapezeka kwathunthu kapena amaonekera mozama kwambiri kuposa munthu amene akudwala matenda. Koma kusiyanitsa zikhalidwe pazifukwa izi, ziyenera kumveka kuti zomwezo zikhoza kukhala ndi zachizolowezi komanso zosavuta. Mwachitsanzo, nkhawa , kukhala wofooka kapena zochepa, sizimapangitsa kuti khalidwelo likhale losavomerezeka. Ndipo ndi nkhawa yaikulu, khalidwe la munthu lidzasokonezeka kwambiri, choncho chikhalidwe chidzagwera m'gulu la abambo.