Palibe kutanthauzira kotsimikizika kwa maloto okhudza amayi achikulire, popeza ndikofunikira kulingalira zina za chiwembu, mwachitsanzo, chomwe chinali, chabwino kapena choipa, munachita chiyani, momwe munagwirizanirana nazo, ndi zina zotero. Pokhapokha titatha kujambula chithunzithunzi tingathe kumasulira.
Nchifukwa chiyani mkazi wachikulire akulota?
Ngati mkazi wa msinkhu anali wokwiya ndi kufuula - ichi ndi chenjezo ponena za kukhalapo kwa mtundu wina wa ngozi. Posachedwapa m'pofunika kukhala maso komanso kupewa nawo zochitika zokayikitsa. Kuti muwone m'maloto mkazi wachikulire amene amapempha thandizo ndizovuta kuti ataya ndalama , choncho ndi bwino kumvetsera mwachidwi. Mkazi wachikulire mu diresi loyera laukwati mu loto ndi chizindikiro chabwino, chomwe chikutanthauza kuti posachedwa mapulani akale adzakwaniritsidwa.
Kuwona m'maloto mkazi woopsya wokalamba mu chibokosi chakuda ndi chizindikiro choyipa, kusonyeza kuchitika kwa matenda aakulu. Wotanthauzira maloto amalimbikitsa kugwiritsa ntchito mwamsanga ndikusamalira thanzi lanu. Ngati mayi wachikulireyo ali mu chikopa choyera, posachedwa padzakhalanso zochitika zokondweretsa, ndipo wolota adzatha kusangalala ndi abwenzi ake. Maloto omwe mkazi wokalamba wotemberera akuonekera mu diresi lakuda ndi chizindikiro chakuti ndi bwino kukonzekera mavuto angapo omwe angabwere kuntchito.
Ngati mkazi wachikulireyo anali wokondwa komanso kumwetulira, ndiye kuti mukhoza kuyembekezera kuti zinthu zisinthe. Maloto omwe mayi wokalamba ndi woipa anawonekera, amatanthauza kuti njira yopita kukwaniritsa cholinga chake ndiyotheka kuthana ndi mavuto osiyanasiyana. Kuti muwone agogo akufa mu bokosi, ndiye muyenera kuyembekezera uthenga woipa. Kulota mkazi wachikulire yemwe akupempha thandizo ndi chisonyezero chakuti posachedwa bwenzi adzafuna thandizo. Ngati mkazi wachikulireyo akuwongolera mtima , ndiye kuti mukhoza kuyembekezera kupambana mu bizinesi.