Aliyense amakonda kupereka mphatso, ndipo ena amafuna kuwalandira. Kuyambira kale, anthu ambiri akuda nkhawa ndi funso: kodi n'zotheka kupereka thaulo? Zikuwoneka kuti thaulo yabwino yosambira kapena kansalu kakang'ono ka khitchini ndi mphatso yabwino kwambiri, komanso chinthu chofunika kwambiri pa moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku. Chifukwa chiyani amapereka thaulo, ndipo chifukwa chiyani ambiri amaona kuti ichi ndi chizindikiro choyipa, tidzayesera kuchilingalira.
Bwanji osapatsa thaulo?
Amakhulupirira kuti chinthu chilichonse chimene chimaperekedwa mwa njira ina kwa munthu chimakhala ndi mphamvu zake. Malingana ndi chizindikiro, kupereka thaulo ndi chizindikiro choipa chomwe chingayambitse mkangano, matenda, mikangano m'banja komanso pakati pa anthu apamtima. Ndipo izi zimachokera ku miyambo yakale m'mapemphero a maliro omwe chinthuchi sichidawathandize.
Mwachitsanzo, pa mpanda pafupi ndi nyumba ya munthu wakufa, thaulo linapachikidwa, kotero kuti aliyense akudutsa akhoza kufotokoza zakukhosi kwake. Pa matayala, bokosilo linatsikira kumanda, ndipo zitseko zinamangiriridwa kwa iwo, pamene adatenga wakufayo kunyumba.
Chifukwa cha miyambo yotereyi, anthu anayamba kuopa kupereka thaulo, ndipo makamaka, ndi zina mwazimenezi, ndi chizindikiro cha msewu ndikukhala panjira.
Kodi amapereka thalali m'nthawi yathu?
M'nthaŵi yathu ino, tikudziwa kuti chinthu choterechi chimagwira nawo ntchito zabwino, monga: Ukwati (pamene achinyamata amatumizidwa mkate ndi mchere pa thaulo), kubadwa ndi kubatizidwa kwa mwana (pamene mwana watsekedwa mu chovala). Amaperekanso kwa ambiri chifukwa cha tsiku lake lobadwa , ukwati, ndi zina zotero.
Kuonjezera apo, pa mwambo uliwonse, m'masiku akale, mawonekedwe apadera anali okongoletsedwa ndi matayala, machitidwe omwe amaimira imfa, chisoni, kapena mosiyana, chisangalalo ndi chisangalalo. Potero, iwo ankanyamula mphamvu inayake. Chizolowezi chodziyeretsera, chomwe tingathe kugula mu sitolo, sichimatanthawuza kanthu ndipo sichikhoza kuvulaza.
Monga momwe mukuonera, ngati tifanizira miyambo yamakono ndi matayala amakono, ndiye kuti funso loti ngati n'zotheka kupereka tilupilirani silimapindulitsa kwambiri masiku ano.