Pamene mwanayo ndi wamng'ono kwambiri, malo ake mnyumbamo amangotsala pang'ono kumalo ake. Koma pamene ikukula, sikokwanira - fidget yaing'ono siingangokhala chete ndikuyesera kupita kukaphunzira dziko latsopano.
Mwamsanga chochitika chofunika ichi, makolo akhoza kuiwala za mtendere - kusiya mwana yekha m'chipinda sikungatheke. Ana ake sakudziwa za ngoziyi, choncho chilichonse chokhazikika kapena chiwonetsero cha chidwi chingakhale ndi zotsatira zoipa. Koma ndi chikhumbo chonse chiri ndi mwanayo mosiyana ndizosatheka. Ndipo kusiya m'nkhalango wamba kumakhala koopsa - mwana amatha kugwedeza ndi kugogoda, akhoza kuyesa kuthamangira pakati pa nthambi ndi zina zotero. Pankhaniyi, malowa adzapulumutsidwa, komwe mungachoke kwa mwanayo kwa kanthawi kochepa, popanda mantha kuti atetezedwe.
Koma, mwatsoka, si malo onse okhalamo omwe amaloledwa kuti azitha kuwalandira momasuka, kotero njira yabwino kuti banja lokhala ndi mwana likhoza kukhala malo okwera pabedi. Zofumbazi zimaphatikizapo zowonjezera komanso chitetezo, komanso kuyenda - zizindikiro ndi mabanki ndi osintha ndipo zimatha kufota mosavuta pamene zoyendetsa zimafunika.
Mabala a ana angagwiritsidwe ntchito kale kwa ana, pakuti ambiri a iwo ali awiri, omwe amalola kuti amaika matiresi osiyanasiyana. Pamene mwanayo ndi wamng'ono, akhoza kukwera pamwamba, karapuz ikangophunzira momwe angadzutsire - kuchepetsa. Mitengo yabwino ya mabedi-imaseŵera ndi chotsitsa chochotsedwera ndi tebulo losintha - njira iyi idzawonjezera malo popanda kupereka chitonthozo.
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