Kwa Asilavo, lingaliro la "woyandikana naye" nthawizonse limakhala lofunika kwambiri kuposa anthu a Kumadzulo. Maukwati onse, maphwando okumbukira kubadwa, kutumizira kwa ankhondo kapena anthu odzuka mumsewu kapena nyumba yaikulu yamzinda idakondwerera palimodzi. Poyamba, anthu nthawi zonse mofunitsitsa komanso popanda kuitanidwa adagwirizana kuthandiza anansi awo ovutika. Munthu nthawi zonse amamvetsa kuti ena omwe amamuzungulira adzabweretsa zatsopano m'moyo wovuta. Koma moyo wamakono umasintha malamulo omwe anakhalako kwa zaka mazana ambiri. M'nyumba yamakono ambiri, anthu samadziwa kuti akukhala pafupi ndi webusaitiyi ndipo sakhala ndi chidwi ndi mavuto ake. Ndondomekoyi ya zinthu imasokoneza nzika zonse zomwe amaganiza, mosasamala za dziko lomwe amakhala. Kumadzulo, kudzipatula kwa anthu kwakhala kolimba kwambiri kuti kunali komweko komwe kunayambira mkhalidwe womwe unayambitsa ntchito yokweza anthu kuti amenyane ndi kudzipatula.
Mbiri ya holideyo International Day of Neighbors
Zikuwoneka kuti Achiferemu osangalala ndi olemera bwino, ayenera kuti adzivutitse okha ndi mavuto awo, koma anali pakati pao omwe adawonekera yemwe adayambitsa tchuthi loyambirira. Zakhala zikudziwika kale kuti ndi kukula kwa ubwino, anthu amachotsedwa, amakhala opanda chidwi kwa ena. Antanas Perifan wa ku Parisi anali ndi nkhawa ndi nkhaniyi kale kwambiri. Palimodzi ndi abwenzi ake, mwamuna wazaka za m'ma 1990 adakhazikitsa mgwirizano wakuti "Paris d'Amis", yomwe idali m'gawo lachisanu ndi chiwiri la chikhalidwe cha anthu okhala mumzindawu. Otsutsawo anathandiza omvera osaukawo ndi mavuto a nyumba ndi achuma, komanso ntchito. Kuti apititse patsogolo umodzi wa umodzi, Perifan anakambirana nkhaniyi pakati pa anthu oganiza za kukhazikitsidwa kwa International Day of Neighbors. M'dera lake la chi 17, polojekitiyi inamvetsetsedwa ndi kuthandizidwa, mu 1999, anthu a ku Paris ochokera ku nyumba zoposa 800 adagwira nawo ntchito yotereyi.
Choyamba, International Day of Neighbors idasankhidwa ndi anthu a madera ena, ndipo patangopita nthawi pang'ono ntchitoyi idathandizidwa ndi nzika za mayiko oyandikana nawo. Kubwera kwa bungwe la European Solidarity Federation linathandizira kuyanjanitsa anthu onse omwe akufuna kufalitsa malingaliro othandiza mu mizinda yonse ya dziko lapansi. Tsoka, palibe bungwe lotero ku Eastern Europe, zikondwerero zoterezi zimakonzedwa ndi anthu ophwanya malamulo omwe amapezeka kumidzi, komanso ndi kayendetsedwe ka mizinda ina, komwe amamvetsa kufunikira kwa kusintha kwabwino kwa chiyanjano.
Zochitika mu International Day of Neighbors
Anthu a ku Ulaya amakonda kuchita chikondwererochi pa sabata la sabata, adakonza zochitika zazikulu pa Lachiwiri lapitali la mwezi wa May. Koma anthu okhala m'mayiko ena samatsatira kwambiri mwambo umenewu, ambiri a tsiku la oyandikana nawo amachitikira kumapeto kwa sabata lakumapeto kwa mwezi wa May, zomwe zimakhala bwino kwa anthu ogwira ntchito. Mwachibadwa, mzinda uliwonse umatchuka chifukwa cha miyambo yawo, choncho bungwe la zochitika zoterezi likhoza kuchitika molingana ndi zosiyana. Ndi bwino kusonkhanitsa anthu omwe angagwirizane kuti azikhala ndi nthawi yofunika kwambiri pa nthawi yofunika kwambiri. Kenaka, pangani ndondomeko ya ntchito zomwe mungathe kukopera
Inde, zonse zidzakhala zosavuta komanso zosangalatsa pamene International Day of Neighbors imachitika mosangalatsa. Ndibwino kuti musakonze maphwando ndi misonkhano yonyansa, koma kuti muchite zonse monga mawonekedwe oledzeretsa tiyi pa matebulo okoma m'munda, paki kapena kunyumba malo ambiri a kunyumba. Pakatikati mwa nyumba zapamwamba, zimatha kuthetsa kusagwirizana ndikukhazikitsana mofulumira. Mwa njira, zikanakhala zopambana kukamba zochitika za ana, mwachitsanzo, masewera "Masewera a bwalo lathu" ndi mphoto zokoma.