Maloto ndi ntchito ya chikumbumtima chathu, koma nthawi zina iwo ndi chisonyezo chabwino cha maumboni a munthu, kotero kuti anthu ambiri amapita kumabuku a maloto kuti amvetse tanthauzo la maloto awo. Ngati mumalota za kukonzera chipewa, zikutanthauza kuti mwamsanga muyenera kuchita chinthu chofunikira kapena kusankha chisankho chovuta. Chinthu chachikulu - musamawope udindo ndipo ndiye kuti mutheka.
Nchifukwa chiyani akulota chipewa pamutu pake?
Ngati muloto lanu mukuwona chipewa cha udzu, chimalonjeza msonkhano wosayembekezereka ndi wokondweretsa, ndipo ngati muli nokha, ndiye kuti mwinamwake udzakhala msonkhano womwe posachedwapa udzakhala ubale wabwino ndi kutha ndi ukwati.
Pamene chovala ichi mu maloto anu chikuwoneka ngati gulu lankhondo, mukuyembekezera mavuto muntchito, mwinamwake katunduyo adzawonjezeka, koma mutatha kugonjetsa apo padzabwera gulu loyera ndipo mudzapatsidwa kuwonjezeka kwa malipiro kapena kuwonjezeka. Kugona ndi chipewa chokongoletsedwa ndi miyala yamtengo wapatali kumalonjeza kusintha kwakukulu pamoyo, kumene palibe amene angakhalebe wosayanjanitsika.
Ndiponso, kutanthauzira kwa malotowo kumakhudzidwa ndi munthu amene alota, mwachitsanzo, ngati mwamuna avala chipewa cha mkazi, imalankhula za manyazi ndi manyazi mu moyo weniweni, ndipo ngati mkaziyo atha kugwira maudindo a amunawo. Pamene chipewa ndi minda yayikulu chikulota, chimayankhula za kudziwonetsera komanso kudzikuza kwambiri.
Pamene munthu avala chipewa chatsopano m'maloto - imayankhula za kuyamba kwake kwatsopano, komwe kudzapambana, kupindula ndikukwera msanga. Kukongola kwa mutu uwu kungakhale chizindikiro cha nsanje ya anthu kuchokera kunja. Chipewa choyera pamutu pake maloto a anthu omwe maganizo awo pa munthu wina amakhala ogwirizana.
Kawirikawiri, zikhoza kufotokozedwa kuti anthu omwe akuyang'ana yankho la funso - chomwe chipewa akulota, ayenera kudziwa kuti malotowo ali abwino, muyenera kungozilongosola molondola ndi kumvetsera zizindikiro zomwe zimatumizidwa.