Namwali ndi kutayika

Kuwongolera, kapena kutuluka kwa anthu, kawirikawiri kumachitika pamene msungwana wamng'ono amagonana ndi mwamuna. Kawirikawiri anthu, kapena kuti anthu, amakhala pakati pa dzenje lomwe ndiloling'ono kwambiri kuposa chiwerengero cha amuna. Pankhani imeneyi, mukamayambitsa mbolo m'mimba ya akazi, anthu ambiri amang'ambika nthawi yomweyo. Pakalipano, pa gulu lirilonse izi ndizo khalidwe la munthu aliyense.

M'nkhaniyi, tidzakuuzani za zomwe zikhoza kuchitika panthawi ya kulongosola, komanso ngati n'zotheka kubwezeretsa unamwali pambuyo pochoka kwa anthu.

Kodi kupweteka ndi magazi zimayenera kuwonetseredwa?

Atsikana ambiri amadziwa kuti kugonana koyamba kunali kowawa kwa iwo. Kuonjezera apo, panthawi ya kutha msinkhu, kapena kutayika, nthawi zambiri magazi ambiri amaperekedwa. Pakalipano, pali milandu ngati palibe magazi ndi ululu panthawi yopweteka. Ndi chiyani chomwe chingagwirizane?

Chimodzi mwa atsikana obadwira amakhala ndi zotetezeka kwambiri, zomwe sizingatheke panthawi ya kugonana. Pankhaniyi, anthu amatsuka kwambiri, ndipo mkazi samamva kupweteka komwe kumakhudzana ndi kupweteka kwake. Momwemonso, magazi m'mabuku amenewa sawonenso.

Kuonjezera apo, nthawi zambiri, anthu omwe amachitira zachiwerewere salipo. Cholakwika choterocho chikhoza kukhala chibadwidwe kapena chopezeka, chifukwa cha kupsinjika kwa ziwalo zoberekera.

Kodi n'zotheka kubwezeretsa umaliseche pambuyo pake?

Kawirikawiri, pambuyo poonongeka, kutsagana ndi kuphulika kwa anthu, pambuyo pa masiku asanu ndi asanu ndi asanu ndi awiri (7), m'mphepete mwa a hymen ndi machiritso ake, ndipo m'tsogolo, kugonana sikumapangitsa mkazi kukhala wosasangalala. Mwachibadwa, kuti magazi pazochitika zokhudzana ndi kugonana sizinaperekedwenso.

Kwa amayi ena kutayika kwa namwali kumakhala vuto lenileni, chifukwa m'mabuku angapo mtsikana akufuna kuwonetsa chidwi pa wokwatirana naye wam'tsogolo. Izi zikukonzedwa tsopano mosavuta, mothandizidwa ndi opaleshoni ya pulasitiki yotchedwa hymenoplasty.

Ndondomekoyi ndikumangirira nyumbayo, pambuyo pake panthawi yogonana padzakhalanso kukhetsa magazi, kutsanzira imfa ya anthu osalakwa.